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I have looked at them and they certainly intrigue me... but, I'm not a big buzzing fan so I'm so sure I'd like it. I'd love to hear if you get one and how well it turned out for you.

YES!! Not necessarily everytime (although I like the ass slap everytime) but sometimes you just need slammin and a bit rough... very HOT! Other times I want slooooow and looking into each others eyes. Equally as hot but just different.

Great article! Touches on all the good and not so good things that can happen. I've fantasized about the FFM and am willing to give it a try IF all the circ umstances were just right. Tried the MMF many years ago, which was great because it was all about me but, nothing I really desire to do again. I agree that the couples rules about what is allowed need to be worked out beforehand, implicitely. For me. I see it being more about sort of 'vacation sex'... something that happens if the planets line up just right and it's something you do for each other.... with NO chance of her stalking your man after the fact.

We all have from time to time, espeically in a long term marriage. My husband had heart problems and medication issues that lasted several years, Talk about tough...he started avoiding ANY physical contact so it couldn't accidently lead to expecting sex, anyway the Dr.s finally found the right combo of meds that allowed things to work right again about a year and a half before he died. It was like we were newlyweds again! Ladies; The most erotic scene in any movie I have yet seen was in a movie 30 years ago, called Emmanuelle in Bangkok, starting Sylvia Kristal, where she and her husband go to a Thai bathhouse and are given massages by two Thai women who remove their clothes, and use their entire bodies to massage both the man and woman on separate tables. pouring warm soap and water over their bodies before laying on top of them an rubbing the soap and water all over them with their bodies. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I saw that movie Howard!! And yes it is still one of the most erotic scenes I've ever seen as well... the women rubbing their soapy bodies all over her. Not graphic just so sloooooooow and sensual.. OH MY!!

You sound perfectly normal to me. Of course if you are having a good time you want to get wild. What is wrong with that? Nothing that i know. Its just that most men are not prepared to enjoy the company of a " wild woman ". Again, they are too concerned about their own " performance " and not about yours. Pick the right kind of guy, and then have fun. ----------------------------------------------------------------- Amen Howard... not all men can handle a wild woman and I'm not settling for one that can't! Life is too short to be unfullfilled! Sex is supposed to be fun and if you're not compatible in or out of the bedroom it's not worth pursuing.

I'm pretty open about sex. Of course I'd never embarass anyone, lady in public ... you know the rest. But generally, it's a subject I enjoy talking about. With my man........ extremely open and graphic. Love to talk about fantasies, plan scenarios to surprise him with, write him dirty emails, send him porn, talk dirty to him on the phone, etc.

My guy has a slight Texas thang going on and it's sexy as hell!

--------------------------------------------------------------------- Same for me Tyger. G-spot induced but mine's more like gushing not actual squirting. VERY intense!

I'm a BIG fan of mutual masturbation! And yes it can be strange the first time you go there with someone. But so worth it IMO. Men love it and actually I'm very visual as well so I do too! My husband walked in on me masturbating early in our relationship and was so turned on I can't even begin to describe the rest of the night....... After that it was always a part of at least foreplay as is oral btw... I always made sure he 'caught' me from time to time after that, it always paid off big time for both of us.

If she is have a taste and texture problem I agree that the easiest way to swallow is having you all the way in the back of her throat. Keep thrusting like normal, when you're ready and your telltale signs are evident she'll know when to make sure you're in the best position to swallow all you have to offer with no problems. It just slides on down and the spurting is such a turn on as well...

Yes, it seems I don't have much luck in that department locally for some reason. Am enjoying the man but not the distance, that's for sure. It's hard sometimes, but it's too early to say what is going to come of it. Although , getting nibbled on a more regular basis would be heavenly............

Hi, long time lurker... first time poster. I enjoy the forum and the subject matter so hopefully I'll have something to say here and there. A bit about me... female, over 40, widowed a year ago, getting back into dating and seeing a great guy in a LDR. ps... you don't bite......... What if I asked reeeeally nicely?