luvmywifesass

I know this answer has been a long time in coming, but my wife and I have been having anal sex three to five times a week for more than 20 years now, with no ill effects. I always cum in her ass. We both enjoy it so much, we've given up vaginal sex altogether. For more than six years now, we've only had anal sex. This said, I think I speak from experience when I say you and your wife can enjoy anal sex as often as you like.

Aiden hit it right on the head. My only recommendation for a good position to start out would be spooning, where you push back onto him rather than him penetrating you. My other recommendation is to pick up a good silicone based lubricant or a really thick water based lubricant. Good luck!

My wife felt the same way, the more she did it, the better her orgasms felt until, eventually, she only wanted to have anal sex (which was alright with me). I'll be the first to admit we're not the normal heterosexual couple, but we've only had anal sex for nearly two years now. About a year and a half ago I got her a jackrabbit vibrator. I had to find a model that doesn't stick out too far, as she usually likes to be on top facing me (cowgirl). She now uses that for vaginal/clitoral stimulation for even more incredible orgasms. Previous to that, she used a dildo in her vagina about 50% of the time and straight anal about 50% of the time.

I guess I'm not clear. Was the soreness she felt internal, or at her spinchter? I agree with the others, it's probably a lubrication issue. However, if her soreness was internal it may be due to other reasons. Luvmywifesass

Mikayla, I guess I'm intrigued as to why you don't advocate having only anal sex? Since trying anal sex over 14 years ago, my wife and I have rarely had vaginal sex. We haven't had vaginal sex in nearly a year, and have a perfectly healthy sex life. It does include anal sex, but there is usually anal play involved there too. It is simply a preference of my wife and I.

My wife also loves anal sex. She had orgasms through vaginal sex, they just weren't as intense. Over the years, the frequency of vaginal sex we had went down and the frequency of anal sex went up. Last July we were discussing it, and my wife admitted she only had vaginal sex because she felt it was "normal," and that she thought I might want it. After assuring her I would be quite happy only having anal sex, that's what we've done. We haven't had vaginal sex since last July, and our sex life is great. I really think your boyfriend's concern is that he thinks he is unable to please you vaginally. Explain to your boyfriend that he is an incredible lover who knows just how to please you, and that you love him in your vagina, but you really love having him in your ass. I'm certain he'll be happy to oblige once he realizes it's not that he can't please you vaginally, but that you simply prefer anal sex.