eccentricgirl87

I have been seeing my guy for almost six months, and are taking our relationship to the next level of saying that, yes, we are in a "relationship" (we're both commitment phoebes... and titles are scary!) We've been friends since high school, and have talked about almost everything over the years. However, I don't know how to tell him about a particularly personal subject: Last fall I had a one night stand with one of my other guy friends. We talked about it a couple of weeks later, and neither of us remembered using a condom (we were both drunk) and I wasn't on BC yet. About a month after we talked, I miscarried. I didn't know I was pregnant when it happened. I have been in therapy and am still dealing with this event. My guy and I recently were talking about pregnancy, and I kinda shut down. I want to tell him, but I don't want to scare him or hurt our relationship. Any advice on when to or if to tell him?

I have to join in on the chorus to Mike_d, and say thank you to the praise for real women!!! Even though I am a size 2-4, I can't help but think that the skinny fad needs to pass. It isn't healthy for the large majority of people. I prefer the tall skinny guys with dark hair and a tight ass... and I LOVE green eyes... and a man in uniform is always a turn on. However, I have found my tastes turning more and more to the guys who are athletic and not much taller than me (fairly easy since I'm 5'3", and the guys I meet are under 6') and the uniform seems to be happening more and more.

Howard, I am currently in the process of getting my firearm permit for conceal and carry, which I think that any(and every) woman should do, or at least go through the training. I do usually go during the day since the nearest store (that I would ever dare go to) is 2 1/2 hours away and I have no fear of being seen going into an adult store. I have gone with several of my other girlfriends, and one of us almost always learns something new!

My guy and I just read your responses. He agrees with the fear of pregnancy, even though I am on BC and we ALWAYS use condoms. We’ve talked about it before and we talked about it again. I should add that once he goes limp, he is unable to get an erection again for about an hour. We talked about the PA, since he does not seem to go limp when we have been drinking (only in moderation!). Stress does not seem to make a difference, nor does the time of day. We are going to take your advice and try to do some diagnostic testing of our own... We have incorporated more oral/mutual masturbation into our sex lives since this started... I even got over my own fear of him knowing about my toys, which he enjoys using on me when this does happen. And for the record, I do not get mad when it happens. I have encouraged him before to think about going to a doc to just make sure. He now agrees that it may be a good idea. I’ll keep you posted!

I am not shy with my girl friends about my sex life OR the TOYS that play a part in it. Consequently, I have been bombarded with questions about the different toys and what is good. I refer most of them to TT, but when it's a friend that I don't think would buy her first toy on her own, I'll buy her her first one. I have given away 6 first toys, and more than a dozen toys to my closest girlfriends for b-days and other holidays.

My roommate accidentally found my toys in my dresser when she was looking for a shirt. Since then I keep my toys in satin pouches in my headboard. When I was still living in my parents house would take the batteries out of my toys and hide them in one of my pillows.

I have never gone to one by myself. I can't seem to get the courage up! My best girlfriend and I go together quite often... the clerk at out favorite shop is very helpful in finding the toys that we like.

I have a question about my guys ability to hold an erection: We can be fooling around and he'll get an erection, but when we get down to actual intercourse, he goes limp. He has no problem cumming when I give him a bj. We've talked about it and he doesn't understand it. It frustrates us both. This doesn't happen all the time, but it has been happening more and more. Any and all advice please!!!

I have to admit that I have a thing for vampires... dark strangers with dark pasts... need I say more! And then the nickname my guy gave me... his little vampire...

My guy and I have been having sex for several months now and have tried many different positions. He absolutely loves when I'm on top, but I find this position is uncomfortable and often painful. We had difficulties with intercourse at first because he is larger than the other guys I've been with and I am a fairly small and petite woman. We do enjoy our other favorites, but have shied away from this one. Is there any way to make this it more comfortable (and not painful) for me?

I'm a 20 year old, semi-single, college chic from rural Minnesota. I have enjoyed the shopping and article from too timid... and thought I would give the forum a try for all of those embarrassing questions I have!