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Maybe she just dosn't feel comfortable doing the penetration herself... I know a few people like that, and I myself used to be like that. My first toy I'd ONLY let him use on me... it made me feel a lot better about using a toy. Show her that you want to please her and get her going so she can have one huge orgasm after you get her off with the toy then have sex with her... Let her know that toys are going to enhance sex, not replace it. If she's still stuck on the "fake" thing, try the Fun Factory Reality Vibe or a realskin dildo. Try warming them up to body temperature by holding it between your legs (like in survival training...)

Number one - KY silk-E - easy to get if I run out and it's water based as I have a bunch of silicone toys Number 2 - Astroglide - just started using it and it may soon be #1 I have yet to try the TooTimid lube, but have heard so many great reviews on it that it's the next on my list to try!!

Try using a bullet during a BJ - alternate fast and slow just like you would your mouth to make him get almost to climax then come back down. Use it on his haft, balls, or even under his balls. Alternate between all three and he wont be able to control himself. Also, a small bullet is perfect to place on your clit when you are on top. You'll get the stimulation directly on your clit and he'll feel the vibrations too! A lot of cock rings I've seen on this site have the bullet built in to double both his and your pleasure. This has to be about the easiest way to get him comfortable with playing with your toys (when I say your, I mean plural - it's always better to use them together!!).

I guess I should say hi and hello to all... I'be been reading posts on this site for quite some time and have just recently got a user name and started posting. I have been visiting TooTimid for shopping and education for a while as a friend close to TooTimid turned me on to it. I have um... greatly expanded my collection of toys since, but still consider myself a newbie. I hope to be able to help others with some of the things I know, but am sure I'll be asking lots of questions! So to all, hello and I am glad to be a part of TooTimid!

Also, use powder after... it helps protect from rubbing against clothing.

Whiskey Cameron (beats Whiskers) as first cat -or- Brandee Cameron - first female dog that wasn't older than me - That definitely sounds like a better Porn Name

Seriously one of the best jokes I've heard in a long time. Thanks for the needed funny!

I've heard some of that before but it cna never get old! Thanks for a needed laugh!!

Yes, that's called a one night stand! Oh I'm sorry for my housemates sometimes then!

Hmmmmm.... Cut and highlights or new shoes..... Oh my god that sounds horribly girlie!!

Thanks Meg, that really helps! You can't be too careful ya know.

As a girl of 5'3", I ONLY wear heels so I can look you tall girls somewhat in the face. I seem to work in an office where quite a few of my peers are those leggy tall women I envy. So please, please, PLEASE don't be ashamed of your height... those shorter girls around you will envy every inch you have on them as long as you have the self confidence... which I get from my heels.

I don't know where else to put this, but I'm wondering if my beloved Cleopatra's Secret clitoral stimulator contains sugar. It is scented and flavored, so I assume so... ? I'm not experiencing any issues, but have been using it more often so I want to make sure I'm not going to have any unwanted vaginal issues. If it does, does anyone know of a response cream that has no sugar?

While trying to find a Halloween costume last year, I found there's a TON of sites that carry sexy outfits... and that time of year is upon us again!! The only problem is that these costumes seem to be aimed at the smaller girls of which I am not one... so if you're a smaller gal, go ahead and google haloween costmes or even adult costumes and see where it takes ya.