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I never really thought about anal for myself until I discovered TT and read a few articles. My wife has done me twice but hasn't let me done it to her...yet. It felt great but it was only a finger, we haven't moved on to bigger things yet. I still hint it every now and then to her but I'll wait till she's ready. I'll have to hint it to her (for me) when I get back home from this two week trip. The hardest part was when I first mentioned anal play for myself and if she could do it. I had a fear of her rejecting me somehow, but she was opened minded...after a few akward minutes, long akward minutes. I think with some more time we'll explore this further and will reach greater pleasures

Well, both actually. Sometimes I have an orgasm too soon and sometimes I loose my erection while she's working the stimulator. While inside her, she uses a stimulator and usually asks me not to move while she works it but when it takes a while I loose my erection. I need to move in and out in order to keep my erection but then I end up having an orgasm before I really want to.

I'm 26 and never really thought about ED because I don't have a problem getting it up. Most of the time the problem is staying up. This might be TMI but she feels so good when I'm inside her that sometimes I can't help it. I travel a lot and when I'm home I also wake up hard in the morning but never thought about that as any sign of ED or anything else. I also don't have a problem getting Mr. Happy ready anytime during the day after that. Mr. Happy can be ready at a moment's notice, stamina is my issue. I haven't talked to a doctor about it either, I never thought about mentioning it and I'm also not too big on using pills. I would really like to find some help with my issue since I don't end up satisfied because I feel that I can't fully satisfy her. (She tells me otherwise, but I kinda don't believe it)

Well it gets a little more complicated... First of all, I'm her first and she's barely opening up to new ideas and try new things. She did try exploring on her own but said she wasn't able to reach it. She was also shy and a little embarassed telling me about it and of course she didn't go into details. I know self-confidence is a problem on both our sides. I have no problem walking around the house naked, but she does. What I fear/hate the most is that I can't satisfy her (IMO, she says otherwise) The other problem is that there isn't much foreplay outside the bedroom and there's many reason for that. I travel a lot which means I'm not home as much, we have a 15 month old which doesn't leave much time and keeps her tired. Lately it's been rare that we are intimate mainly because we're tired, I'm not home, or when I'm home it's the time of the month. I like playing with her outside the bedroom (pretty much everywhere) but sometimes she's not in the mood for it so I kinda avoid it now. The night we are intimate I play with her first and get her excited and since she likes missionary style the most (because she can hug me) we sometimes use the clit stimulator but she can't reach orgasm. Then when she asks me not to move and wait while she stimulates herself (while I'm inside) I sometimes go soft. That's really when I get upset at myself. I really appreciate you guys listening and any ideas would definetely be great. Thanks!

I have a similar problem, but I'm only 26! I can't seem to hold it as long with my wife (we've been married 2.5 years). We have tried longer foreplay but the other thing about it is she hasn't had an orgasm either. I would like to be able to hold it longer and maybe she'll be able to orgasm. I've tried desensitizing creams and condoms (they used to work) and also cockrings but it doesn't work very well for me. Any ideas? My wife also has a hard time reaching orgasm. When we use a bullet she can get really close but we can never finish. She doesn't really like vibrators. I would really like to satisfy my wife completely and I feel bad since she doesn't climax and I do. Plus it's not satisfying to me if she's not satisfied.

I'm a little interested in the replies that will come... After doing a lot of reading on the "education section" I was curious to try it myself and one day my wife went for it. I was scared to see what her reaction would be but since it's happened twice it looks like she's a little more comfortable doing this (she hasn't said it but I think we're getting more adventurous).

Married for 20 months, together almost 5 years. I lover her more everyday, specially since we can talk about anything and everything. I'm slowly getting her to come out of her shell and even though our bedroom fun doesn't happen as often (we had our first baby 8 months ago) it gets better everytime! I never thought she would do some of the things she's done (to me ) but I'm loving it! Even after our baby I'm still very attracted to her and I still find her sexy! Specially when I get lucky enough and see her in lingerie

I'm very new to the discussions here and noticed that it's been over a month since anyone has replied to this post. Is anyone still interested in new pictures? I noticed that all the guys pics have been removed, is there a reason for that? I'm kinda embarrased to post one of mine and since there's no other guys' pics up, I don't know...