Personally I have found that I let my fantasy scrips take over my real scrips. In fact it has put a bit of a downer on our sex life. But lately I have realized that the only way he can know what I want is if I show him. Also one problem that people might have is the "way it looks on t.v.", as if sex is supposed to look like that, or feel good when they do this. But that is not the case. In movies, there is a director, and they aren't actually in the act. The guy doesn't usually have a bit of a belly to get in the way, or the woman is more flexable than me. That was my problem for all these years, but I just figured out that my hubby is trying his best to please me, and in fact doing all that I ask him, just it doesn't feel as good as it looks. SO! Point being that yes, my fantasy scrips are almost always different than real scrips, and that is why I don't play out fantasies. I am working on it, and the fact that I talk about better sex right after sex. Gotta stop that...