Aiden I think most of us women are usually our own worst enemies...we see every little flaw and exaggerate it in our heads until it balloons to huge proportions. We have to fight that no matter what or it will have the power to shut us down and repress us and when that happens and you let your sexuality go it will affect your relationship and it all snowballs into a self-fulfilling snowball to hell. Is your man an absolute "Greek God"? perfect in every way? Probably not....we're all just human and most of us don't get paid to spend 8 hours a day working out to look like models. If you care about each other I really don't think people judge each other that harshly and he obviously does love you. We've all said or done stupid things sometimes without meaning any harm, but the other person takes it wrong. Don't let those negative voices in your head get the upper hand....you are wonderful, beautiful, and giving and that makes you sexy as hell! Own it!