chloegirl

Not often....it's hard for me to get the time off from work....but there are times when I am able to meet him somewhere if he's within a several hour range and spend an entire day or night locked in the hotel room, venturing out only for dinner & wine and usually some type of erotic teasing at the table. How about you LL?

My SO travels alot just like Ladylove's....let's just say we rarely let more than a few days go by without taking advantage of Messenger or those nifty webcams! We have cum up with the hottest fantasies that way.....and then there's the fun of really acting them out when he gets home (when the games are over it's not unusual to wander over to TT to check out the action clothed or not as per what came first)

I agree with both of you. It's alot of different things that first catch your attention. While there is no denying that I might first be drawn to a nice ass, broad shoulders, sexy forearms, sensual hands, strong firm chest & abs, really good facial bone structure....once you get past that first look it's all in the eyes and personality. Humor and an open mind on top of some mischievious twinkling eyes get me hook, line, and sinker! Something else that comes to mind and I'm not sure how to say this without it sounding offensive but I know that we all can relate to in one way or another.....Of course it's the tall, slim, "model" types, both male and female that may draw our eyes and no doubt it is a hot visual turn on to be with someone who looks "perfect", but when it's all said and done....you can't deny that it just feels better cuddling up to a "real" person with a little meat on them....you can just settle in much more comfy! Once you "know" someone and have that intimate connection, you don't necessarily look and see them in that superficial way....when you are hot together they are HOT and beautiful regardless of if they fit the "mold" or not! So while I may first be attracted to that tight, chiseled bod in theory, I am perfectly happy to to wrap myself around a bit of belly or whatever (as long there is mutual heat and passion it's all good!)

I have found myself thinking lately about the large stash of toys, movies, lingerie, and other kinky stuff I have stored in my bedroom, not to mention the personal "dirty & erotic" pics and archived messages on my laptop and flash (that's all password protected at least but you never know if a computer savy person could still crack it!). What if some unforseen tragedy should come out of the blue? If I was rushed to the hospital with no time to prepare or a fatal accident? How would I feel having those left behind to find all this stuff? While the logical, forward thinking part of me says "big deal....sexuality is part of life....a gift to being human" and I have tried to teach it and preach it to my family....there is still that little part of me left over from my upbringing that makes me feel that it would be embarrassing to have anyone know the implied details of this very private side of me; the extent of which is shared with very precious few. I mean I know that it would gross most people out to come across a bin FULL of large toy cocks, vibrators, dildos, metal rings, etc...knowing I had used them....would it tarnish the way they remembered me? I mean once I'm gone, I'm gone....but what about the burden that might leave to them? Ok morbid I know! And I am in no way ready to throw this stuff out, relinquish my sexuality and enjoyment that I still get from this stuff, (heck without it I'd have to be close to celebate and at this stage my drive is still in high gear. I NEED and function best with multiple daily O's!...that would be toooo depressing!), not to mention the monitary value lol! but still.... you never know what each day will bring. Just wondering how you all think of this....especially the reviewers who have access to really enormous supplies.

They could be a stalkers paradise (until the stalkee wisens up and sets thier settings to private and then your fun's over !) I can totally understand the type of exhibitionist feelings that might propel people to want to put all of their pics and blurts out there, but ultimately I am waay too private of a person to want the masses to have access to my private life. If you could keep your account limited to JUST the small circle of real life friends that you want to share with that would be great, but I know that most people will get friend requests from damn near everyone that lives in their town that remotely knows what you look like and how to graciously turn them down can be draining. If I want anyone to see or know my stuff I will personally phone, talk to, or email them. (mostly because depending on my mood I can easily get carried away and post or blurt something out that I might come to regret later lol! and at least the people who REALLY know me would know not to take it as gospel!)

You are at the grocery store on a not so busy Sunday morning and you notice an extremely good looking, well built man minding his own business and shopping with a very obvious and impressive hard on under his pants. Are you intrigued and bit aroused, leading you into a nice fantasy of meeting him in the parking lot?... would you have the guts to go up and flirt with him?...or are you grossed out and offended?....automatically consider him a dangerous perv and report him to management? hhhhmmmm?

I have no personal experience with this but I know of 2 couples here in town who began practicing this....switching off and swinging with each other. It did not end well. The heat and novelty at first was totally intoxicating to them all but it wasn't long before the "rules" started to be broken. The husband of one and the wife of the other began to hook up by themselves outside of the context of the "swinging" get togethers and it got ugly. Ended up in 2 divorces by the time it was all over. I agree with you, I think that hot as this little fantasy is, it probably is best left as just a fantasy if you are in a committed relationship that you value. Now for those free and single it would be a whole different ballgame!

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Hi Suzy P! OMG does this hit a nerve! My H was like that....he woudn't touch me there either and when he "accidently" did I swear he would literally wipe his hand off! For years no amount of talking or "showing" would change him. Then when finally I got him to grow out of that little mental block he was so inept and clueless I couldn't believe it....You could literally mark the spot and grab his hand to show him where and how and he STILL couldnt catch on. (Just one of the 100 other sexually dysfunctional issues that will eventually kill a relationship!) Quite frankly I think you can maybe blame the young ones on inexperience and ignorance, but after they've been "exposed" to sexual relationships for awhile and STILL have some kind of aversion then there are deeper issues there. Maybe they are assexual or gay and don't even realize it themselves. Repression or selfishness is a bad thing! I'm glad to hear your's is coming around! (But DON"T settle! You deserve what you want & need!)

I eagerly await! (and can be sooo accomodating to prove myself more than ready!)

Lol when I first looked at that I thought it was asking....as in Multiple Men?.... mmmm YES, I'm for it! lol!

Not necessarily for the express purpose of getting on TT, but I can't tell you the # of times I've wandered over here after "something else" that way!

Very nice LL! There is something so hot about the thought of watching....and being watched! Imaging a hot time was had by all!

It was kind of a slow domino progression one thing leading to another. Incorporating very visually erotic oral and verbal skills, watching each other mutually masturbate during a long hot play session, he would watch stroking as I would use and cum all over one of the lovely thick lifelike cocks (you can buy here by the way) and got to where he would want to taste and lick my juices from the toy, slowly and sensually. Add to that some occasional wearing of leather corsets, panties, etc., the next step was to purchase a really hot looking leather harness. A bit of occasional lightweight dominatrix play (never the cruel, belittling play....more like me just instructing him what I want him to do, what I want to see etc.) always a slow, hot progression of kissing, touching, each of us watching each other make a sensual visual production of stroking our "own" cocks as we are totally aroused by the other in between, him watching as I lick and suck his then stand back and have him do "mine"....it sounds twisted but is very hot in the moment! Then some hot and heavy oral sessions with me licking, sucking, playing with his balls as I work his cock slowly working my way to teasing, fingering his ass, reading about and trying to incorporate the pleasures of prostate and perineal massage....well it just slowly progresses from there lol.

mmmmmm yessss! That's the whole point! Gimme!

Totally understandable Ready, and I would never judge or dislike anyone because of their preferences....I never in a million years would have ever even thought of such a thing as fun myself but as our fantasy exploration and games slowly grew we have discovered some enjoyable novelty in all sorts of ways I would have been way too uptight to even consider up until these last few years. For OCCASIONAL play it has proven to be be hotly entertaining! The homophobe label is there because most men I know around here are sooooo adamently vocal spouting off against "nothing goes near MY ass" and then proceeding to get ridiculously negative, ugly, and downright angry over anything they could label as "gay".... I cant' help but tease them and stir them up more by telling them that to me they have to be afraid and unsure of their own "manliness" by the vehemently angry way they respond, but that's just my take on the people I know personally, not saying that everyone who is not interested in it fits the same bill at all! Heck, 10 years ago I was the same way! I can certainly understand and respect the preference to not be interested at all ....but to each his own.....it's all private and personal, and the reason I even brought it up was to learn more about how more people feel.

Have any of you ladies ever worn or used a strap-on? You cannot imagine how freakin' hot it feels just wearing it, stroking it, the look and feel of having that thick cock pressed against you but from the oppostite side and YOU get to USE it, watching your guy sensually suck on YOUR cock, lol! Not using it in a cruel or agressive way, just as another aspect of erotic play. Of course the eroticism of it is in direct proportion to the open-mindedness and hot appreciation of your partner, but if you are lucky enough to have one like that OMG!!!! Now being from the south, it sounds like most guys are a bit squeamish about even exploring ass play, but if they could get over their childish, homophobe fear, they could be in for some pretty hot and amazing O's themselves. But I'm wondering how others think on this subject. Too taboo for you?

I am so happy for you! And you are still young so you still have so many options and opportunities to have it all! I wish I would have "cum" upon this enlightment 10 years earlier myself... but better late than never!

OMG yessss! It makes all the difference in the world! And isn't it wonderful to break out of that ridiculous "good girl" straight jacket?!!!

lol....only in my imagination! It takes 2 to fill in that triangle and although I know one perfect participant, it would take actual searching to fill that second position that would fit all the criteria: safe, anonymous, not a homophobe, HOT, etc.. I am not at all adverse to a FFM threesome, it could be very hot too and believe me, it's played in some fantasies as well! But to be honest it's the male bits that I crave!

a MMF threesome!

Longggg, slow, erotic kisses as you let your hands slowly wander and explore each other first thru your clothing, then slowly unwrapping each other to feel that warm flesh under your fingertips.... the feel of a thick, hard cock in your hand as you release him.....the sight of that same lovely, hard cock there in your hand, and then right in front of your face as you kiss and lick your way down his body before slowly, and sensually taking him into your mouth.... the sound of his moans and approval as you pleasure and enjoy him

Watching! as in watching a guy sensually stroke his cock and cum for me....watching him lick me....watching as he enters me slowly....watching him lick my juices off the toy cock he's been watching me use! Men are not the only visual creatures!

oooh ok...I see now....same address as TT so probably is related. But it's a shame to lose your blog page and articles!