I haven't watched much erotica or porn but of the clips I've seen, I like the realistic situations--real couples making love kind of thing. I do not like it when you can tell they are faking it and just going through the motions. I have seen some threesomes I liked--mostly 2 gals and a guy but a few 2 guys with 1 gal. I too do not want to see a woman being a dumping ground--just changing taking turns, not pleasuring her. Also like the woman on woman without toys or just vibrators. The "wham, bam, thank you mame" doesn't do it for me. I like realness and at least being given the impression everyone is enjoying themselves.