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what about if there is house& bills envolved? nicol

ps, i allso want to add that all of you are great here!!!! thank you

Yes, i will suggest the doctor apmt. AGAIN, and yes i am hurt, this was to be fun for us, together, And it is, I have noticed he does not go to the garage as often as he did, And, i would never cheat, i am mad! hurt etc. we are talking, so thats good.He needs to understand that i want him to want me!I have a high sex drive, I love giving him bjs.,with the sex toy,, it turns me on.... he knows this, AND i am much better at it now after reading up on tootimids site, .nicol

i will say pretty much what you said, at the right timming, otherwise i will let it go, and i'll get myself more toys to use,like the rabbit ? or go find me a man.

Thank you for your help, how do i talk to him about wanting strokers over me without him getting pissed off?, Do i say What can i do to help you want me more than your strokers? My words are at a end with him,I

he has a big fucking ego that always has to be fixed, and he always has to talk about it!!!!!!!

this may sound weird, but, he told me years ago that his x-girl friend who he was with before me. was into sex toys, and she began wanting the toys over him, so he thru the toys away, she left him the next day. she was fucking alot of guys too. she would send him to the store to buy the biggest cucumber he could find to use on her.. nicol

God! i love your picture!!lol

you are so right!!!! he has been fucking w/ my mind for a long fucking time!!!

Yes your right, we have come a long way in a good, bad marriage, i do not know for certain if he was, is, cheating or what ,ever, i made him a doc. apmt., a couple of months ago, then the next morning he ejaculated well, during bj., i told him yea this time what about the next???, he said to cansel the apmt. So he says he has a problem and it is not me but he will not see a doctor! . And i clean the toys, strokers ect., and he ejaculates w/ the strokers. He is a hard person to talk to also. But i have needs too, And i'm not just talking about sex, ...theres just too much to write, this has been 21 long years of a marriage, and i have done every thing i can and still trying, He says he does'nt want to seperate, I am confussed, worried, etc. nicol

yea i know, he smokes and strokes out in the garage, so i told him when we are ALONE i would sneak out there and take over, lol, nicol

And, it can't be my pussy, last time i put my ben wa balls up there, i had trouble getting them out! nicol

there just the masterbators, cyber pussy, etc. we got them in jan.08 and feb.08, he is also having trouble cumming w/missionary, but will cum w/bj. or he goes limp, then i get him hard again,on and on, so i think his masterbaters are ??? or i will put one on him and suck and lick his head and so on, But i am getting tired of him going out and using the gloves over me! i want some too! nicol

husband perfers sex toys over me, now what?