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what about if there is house& bills envolved? nicol

ps, i allso want to add that all of you are great here!!!! thank you

Yes, i will suggest the doctor apmt. AGAIN, and yes i am hurt, this was to be fun for us, together, And it is, I have noticed he does not go to the garage as often as he did, And, i would never cheat, i am mad! hurt etc. we are talking, so thats good.He needs to understand that i want him to want me!I have a high sex drive, I love giving him bjs.,with the sex toy,, it turns me on.... he knows this, AND i am much better at it now after reading up on tootimids site, .nicol

i will say pretty much what you said, at the right timming, otherwise i will let it go, and i'll get myself more toys to use,like the rabbit ? or go find me a man.

Thank you for your help, how do i talk to him about wanting strokers over me without him getting pissed off?, Do i say What can i do to help you want me more than your strokers? My words are at a end with him,I

he has a big fucking ego that always has to be fixed, and he always has to talk about it!!!!!!!

this may sound weird, but, he told me years ago that his x-girl friend who he was with before me. was into sex toys, and she began wanting the toys over him, so he thru the toys away, she left him the next day. she was fucking alot of guys too. she would send him to the store to buy the biggest cucumber he could find to use on her.. nicol

God! i love your picture!!lol

you are so right!!!! he has been fucking w/ my mind for a long fucking time!!!

Yes your right, we have come a long way in a good, bad marriage, i do not know for certain if he was, is, cheating or what ,ever, i made him a doc. apmt., a couple of months ago, then the next morning he ejaculated well, during bj., i told him yea this time what about the next???, he said to cansel the apmt. So he says he has a problem and it is not me but he will not see a doctor! . And i clean the toys, strokers ect., and he ejaculates w/ the strokers. He is a hard person to talk to also. But i have needs too, And i'm not just talking about sex, ...theres just too much to write, this has been 21 long years of a marriage, and i have done every thing i can and still trying, He says he does'nt want to seperate, I am confussed, worried, etc. nicol

yea i know, he smokes and strokes out in the garage, so i told him when we are ALONE i would sneak out there and take over, lol, nicol

And, it can't be my pussy, last time i put my ben wa balls up there, i had trouble getting them out! nicol

there just the masterbators, cyber pussy, etc. we got them in jan.08 and feb.08, he is also having trouble cumming w/missionary, but will cum w/bj. or he goes limp, then i get him hard again,on and on, so i think his masterbaters are ??? or i will put one on him and suck and lick his head and so on, But i am getting tired of him going out and using the gloves over me! i want some too! nicol

husband perfers sex toys over me, now what?

thanks for all your replys, I have'nt told husband yet that i might buy a fake penis, he might not like that, THow- I have bought him the vagina, strokers etc., . For the vagina, i want to try a mock 3some like the reviews said, for the strokers, I use them on him like the reviews said, ..Since i need more touching,carressing,strong passion , all over stuff, the thought of JUST a fake penis will not be enough. I'm getting a little depressed. nicol

I would have been a bitch too My husband has rejected me 2 times now in past month, he did not do it like that thow, I was really hurt also, there i was, all horny and no one to please me but the good old fingers!! men , how would you have liked your wife to regect you like that? nicol

husband can not keep up with me and i am tired of using my fingers, any great relistic dildos you can suggest? nicol

Husband has been having trouble cumming when inside me, anywhere, unless i use the glow in the dark stroker, he sure loves that!. I finnally let him cum in my mouth while using stroker, i did gag some because he came so much and was very concentrated i could not take it all in. I want him to cum w/ me not rely on sex toys, the toys are new to our 21 year marriage, and w/ all the past troubles we have had. How do i get over feeling a little hurt ? is it me? We have cleared the air on the cheating issue. Theres been no cheating,. Last time he did cum in me was w/ anal for our first time, ( last week i think?) nicol

thank you very much Howard, I printed the page, i will try ( nicole) sorry for dumping so much on you, i was a little too open.

I am 44, with raging sex horrmones going, My hubby and i went a long time without ANY SEX. i mean, 2 times a year!!!!!!.. come on, I did not get married 21 years ago to become selabet!!!!!!!!!!, did i spell that right?, A person needs to be deserving of good loving and good head!!. For a women to get totally into it,. If a man has verbally, physically,or even cheated!!!, abuses a women, then how do i get back into the mode?, They have to deserve the srevice!, The licking, suckng,touching,. How do I trust,let go,relax?, we buy over $200.00 worth of intimate toys, let him FUCK ME IN THE ASS! for the first time in 21 years!,reserve a weekend in Monterrey!, and re-learn how to let him CUM in my mouth AGAIN!!!!!., GEE , and I am not ugly!, I have 3 grown kids, whose frinds want me!!!!. AL I WANT IS MY HUSBAND!!,, I WANT SEX, SEX,HEAD, SEX! my hormones are raging!!!!!!!!!!

I have been married for 21 years, I am still a bit shy, we just now bought over $200.00 worth of fun looking toys, I have allways loved giving him oral sex, However, years ago I use to let him cumm in my mouth, He loves that. BUT, I have a sinceitive throat, it makes me gag a little, how do i get over this? I have other issues too.