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I haven't run in an organized event, but I run 4-5 days a week, between 3 and 6 kilometers depending on how I feel, and what other exercises I plan on doing. I have a new year's resolution to run in an 5K event this year. And maybe a 10K. If you haven't done distance running before, I'd suggest starting off slow and alternating between running and walking for 2-3 miles. When I started I wasn't very fit (but I was pretty young at 21), and I wasn't able to even run a mile non-stop. Every few days try running non-stop and see how far you can get. It took me nearly 2 weeks to get up to running a mile non-stop at a moderate pace (10-11 min/mile). Once I was able to run a mile, I kept adding a minute to my duration every week. I've read a number of breathing techniques and pacing methods, and the one I use is to breathe in through the nose, and exhale through the mouth. My pacing is an inhalation every 3 steps, and exhale over the following 2. I'd suggest stretching before and after, and waiting at least 30 minutes after you eat before running, as well.

I talked to her more about it, and she told me she's very sensitive during foreplay. And once she's aroused enough where oral sex would feel good, she'd rather just have penetration. The smell issue is still there, but it seemed the sensitivity was the primary reason she wasn't into it. I suppose there's not much reason to pursue it further, if she's not that into oral in the first place. Thanks for the suggestions and ideas.

I can't say any particular profession turns me on. There are attractive women in just about every profession. Although I haven't seen very many of them in the technology or engineering professions (I'm a programmer by trade). Money's certainly a plus, but it wouldn't have any impact on attraction. I think I'm too visual for things like presumed compassion or work-ethic to factor in at that initial attraction stage.

It's been a little while since I was in 5th grade, but I remember playing Field Hockey in PE from at least 6th grade through to 12th. I don't remember anyone ever being seriously injured while playing the game; I believe we did have helmets... but I don't remember a facemask. As for a letter to parents, I'm pretty sure stuff like that is in the Student Handbook, which every school I ever attended provided at the start o the year.

Men are visual. I don't see why there's such a hang up on looking at other women. Naked or otherwise. As for pursuit, my guess would be that he's not satisfied sexually. Just because a man wants more sexually doesn't mean that he's willing to undergo the upheaval that divorce would cause. Perhaps he is/was happy with every other element other than the sex with his current wife... or at least not unhappy enough to change anything but that.

Why is it such a surprise that he'd lie about viewing images of naked women? Unless you live in a sexually-open environment, that sort of imagery is considered immoral. From my experience, most of the U.S. is not such a sexually-open environment. I imagine most people are embarrassed by their desire to look at pornography, regardless of how natural it may be. Unless you've fostered a very open sexual environment in the relationship, I wouldn't be that surprised by the lying. I don't think there's any way to remove his desire to view naked women. Even if you walked around the house naked all the time, and were his ideal of beauty. No matter what, he'd be interested in seeing the other forms of beauty that are out there.

I'm no expert, but I'm certain neither my skin, nor hers, tastes anything like semen, vaginal mucus, or the fluid that is generated when she becomes aroused. Not when we just step out of the shower, just finish a 5K run, or are actively bleeding from a cut. From what I've read, vaginal mucus changes taste, smell, and texture based upon the menstruation cycle and the individual, ranging from sweet to salty to sour (although I've also read that there should be no scent at all, which certainly isn't the case). My skin certainly can taste sweet, salty, or sour depending on where I've been or what I've been doing, but I wouldn't say any of those describe her smell when she's aroused. There's no discernable scent there when she's not aroused. The scent has always been the same, for as long as I've known her (6 years). I don't think she believes its sinful, as she's let me do it before, even somewhat regularly for the first couple years of our relationship. Nasty, probably, due to the smell/taste issue she has that I've already identified. As for hinting at other issues, I suggested that she might have other reservations about it, but I don't know of them. I asked why she didn't like receiving oral sex, and the answer I was given was "it makes you stinky" (or roughly that), which I'm sure that it does result in a lingering scent. There are plenty of people who dislike the smell/taste of blood, so I don't find it abnormal for other body secretions. I'm just looking for a good product to mitigate the issue. This site appears to have two products (Intimate Woman Licker and Love Potion) which might help, but I was looking for more suggestions/opinions/reviews.

My wife has a regular exam by her OB/GYN every year, so I'm relatively certain there's no infection. The smell hasn't changed as far as I can tell in the six years I've known her. She's the only sexual partner I've had, so I'm not sure if her smell is "normal" compared to other women. Neither of us smoke, and there's been no substantial weight change (we both weigh about 5-10 pounds more than when we met), hormonal change, or diet change. I'm pretty sure she just doesn't like her own taste/smell when we kiss after OS. We've abstained from oral sex for nearly 3 years now, and it wasn't until last month that I was able to get any explanation out of her. Perhaps there's more to it than that, as she doesn't seem comfortable talking about such things. I'm hoping to be able to get more information from her if I tackle the one problem she's identified (if additional problems do exist).

My wife indicated that the reason she doesn't enjoy oral sex is due to the smell/taste on me. Is there any product that would remove or hide the smell/taste? I don't have a problem with it, but my wife certainly does. She used to let me pleasure her orally, but within the last couple years she definitely dislikes it (she closes her legs the second my face gets anywhere near the area). Anyone have any suggestions on products that are safe and don't require clean-up?

My wife and I met through match.com about six years ago, and we've been married for two now. I've never asked her what her experience was on the site, but I know I revised my profile at least a dozen times in the three months I was a member. I don't think the "wink" concept existed then, but I don't imagine it's likely to garner much response. Having pictures posted helps a lot. I sent upwards of 30 initial e-mails, and spent a lot of time composing them, identifying things we may have in common based on our profiles, and probably fewer than 30% responded. I met six women through the site before I found the "right" one. A friend of mine who's getting married in May also met his fiance through match.com. He already had been married and divorced, and has two children. The sites seem to have a lot of people involved, and it shouldn't be too difficult to meet people if you identify profiles where there's likely to be a match, and put some thought into your initial contact e-mail. And meeting in a public place is a must. Most of the women I met at malls or restaurants, but two did give me their home address, which I felt was a little awkward for both of us.