Hello.. I just wanted to thank you for the response. I had read somewhere that it was probably all in my head, but I don't feel like anything is bothering me in a way that would affect me sexually. I am the one who asked for the divorce and very glad I did.. so I'm having a hard time trying to figure that one out. Isn't there some kid of women's version of "the blue pill"? Something that helps with the blood flow down there? I looked this up on the internet and didn't see anything. It's just so frustrating. I've had some great sex with a couple of guys who were very well indowed, but didn't cum. ugh... and it's embarrasing to get the nerve up to ask my doctor, but maybe I'll have to bite the bullet there and just ask. Thanks again for your great response...very helpful. Kim