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I recently started with anal as well. I was very apprehensive when I first did it. I had the same experience my SO was terrific. The least little ouch or pain he was right there for me making sure I was alright and telling me it was fine. He told me from the get go if it doesn't work no big deal. I had no problem with small toys but when it came to him penetrating me I had trouble. Now I am fine and have to say I LOVE IT. I wish you the best of luck. Relaxation and lots of lube are true keys to success. I just learned to take deep breaths and that helped me a lot when we were first starting out with it.

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I started squirting about 5 months ago. I remember the first time I did it I was like what just happened as I didn't know about it before then. He was thrilled and loved every minute of it. I was like it must be a good thing as he is loving it. To the point he gave me a nickname of Niagara Falls. Then he found it even funnier that the town for his fantasy baseball team he put as Niagara Falls. I just crack up laughing. He is very good at getting me to do this multiple times.

Unfortunately with schedules and life we are having a difficult time getting together, but we are together at least one night a week. Yet during that night we generally make love 3-5 times. The other times we get together we still make out and such but aren't having intercourse. I wish it was more spaced out but I will take what we have. I am very happy with our relationship.

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We are gonna try it a few other ways when he gets back from his business trip. We are planning a special night for my upcoming birthday so I am sure they will be out then. We just thought of the position on the box and went with that, but I am sure we can find other fun variations.

No the bears can't be taken off. I didnt like the tongue that comes out from the bear so it was suggested to remove that. It is a thought, but it is permanent once done.

I was thinking the same thing about the tongue. My SO and I were talking about doing this. Thanks.

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What is nice is that we are open and honest. We talked from the beginning that we wouldn't do anything that would intentionally hurt either of us. Also that we would not ask each other to do anything that we would not try either. I keep an open mind as I had come from a very sheltered and vanilla past of over 10 years. I am loving it now.

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I used to think it was weird. Then in getting into a conversation with my SO. We were kind of going back and foth through email with various questions we could come up with. I asked him what fetish he may have that he ahsn't shared with me. he told me that he pleaded the 5th....well that got me wondeirng so I pushed a little further and he told me how he was into watersports. I try to keep an open mind as I had only been with 1 man before him who was VERY vanilla. Well I told him I would be willing to give it a try and see. Well the first night he had me sit on the toilet and he gave me a shower onto my clit, which actually felt really good and started turning me on. Then we got into talking about it again the other day and he wanted to do some more with it. I was all for it. While we were in the shower last night he did it on my nipples....the warmth and flow felt so good that it was revving me up again. I am keeping an open mind. I told him I am willing to at least try something once before I completely dismiss it. If I would have dismissed this I would have missed out on something that I really enjoyed.

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Multi-Position Beaded Silk Rope When I first received this I thought that it looked like a lot of fun and very interesting. It measures 36 inches in length and has 8 repositionable beads along the rope which was made of a nice soft material. This also came with a free mask. The beads can be moved to adjust the opening of the ends to put your feet into, but not to lengthen the rope in any way. I will say I would have hoped the rope was a little longer. You have to be very limber in order to use this properly. My other half tried it as he is more limber than I. It took some doing to get into and looked very uncomfortable. Once he was in it I was like no way will that work for me. I just think that it would put pressure and strain on the neck. If you have any type of problems with your neck I would not advise you to use this. You slip your leg through each hole and then place the rope behind you neck. This puts you into a very vulnerable position. I would recommend this for anyone that is very limber, but for anyone that is not then I would pass. This was interesting but not for me. It is a very nice concept.

Bears of Passion I have to say when I received this at first I got a good laugh. When you look at the shaft it has a lot of detail to it, but it is the head that got me laughing. It has a woman’s head with facial features included. I laughed and said to my SO that I felt like she was looking at me. This is a light blue in color and what was nice when I took it out of the package it did not have that new toy smell. It is 4.5 inches in length and 1.5 inches in diameter. It came with instructions for the batteries. The only thing is instead of being instructions just for this one it was for several different models. If you needed help with the batteries you needed to find the correct one. You unscrew the bottom and insert the 2 AA batteries which were very easy, then just screw the cap back on. Make sure that it is on tight as this toy is waterproof which was another great plus. Also with it being waterproof it is very easy to clean up and very compatible with lube as well. As I was already very aroused no lube was needed for this one. He inserted it in and turned in on. I did enjoy the vibrations from it, but did not feel they were strong enough within the shaft. As far as the bear with his tongue that was cute as well. I think that without the tongue it would have carried the vibrations a little bit more. It did work nice on my clit but was not strong enough for me. I just feel that if the tongue was removed maybe the vibrations on the bears would have carried through more. I would recommend this as it does give a nice full feeling and it is very user friendly. The dial at the bottom is really easy to operate in order to adjust the vibrations from low to high.

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That is terrific. Congratulations. I am glad to hear that everyone is doing well.

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