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Awww Suzy, I'm sorry this is happening. He strikes me as really immature. I'm glad you've filed, printed things off. Keep being smart about it.

probably true. workaholic husband has gone back to work tonight AGAIN. THBM has had sex in a public bathroom

I love quilts and those are beautiful!

You're an artist AND you're uber sexy!

Breakthrough? Breakthrough! Woot woot!

Sorry I'm kinda late to this post. Yeah good self-esteem can be a slippery thing to hold on to. I'm so glad that you're getting back on track. You inspire me with your knowldge and advice. I have evry confidence that you will work this out and be stronger for it in the end.

Hot4hubby, I think you are going to have to get used to the idea of being naked in front of your hubby because I can feel the heat coming off you two and I think the moment he lays eyes on you your clothes are going to DISINTIGRATE! How many days left? I gotta circle that on my calander because I think we'll be feeling the heat wave all the way to Canada. Have a great time and if you get a minute, let us know how it goes.

My daughter's best friend is Black. They've been friends for years and she's a great kid- athletic, funny. She spends tons of time at our house. My girl loves to go to their house and to the Jamaican parties and events. We live in a very homogeneous community and this kid is kind of a celebrity just by being Black. I agree with SuzyP's comments but remember, you can't judge someone by the colour of his neck!

True I used to work at a hotel pool and sometimes after closing..... TPBM has at least 10 sex toys

Being the first woman to work there comes with a whole set of problems, especially if these guys are insecure. Good for you for breaking that ground. There's bound to be a lot of posturing and huffing about. They probably will tend to stick together on this and make you out to be the outsider. Good thing you're a strong person, but it does suck. I say stick to your guns, but by all means find a new job if this one gets too unpleasant. You can still be right even if you don't work there any more. Life's too short.

Yeah this happens to me from time to time. Not painful tho. My husband calls them schneeb farts, but he can be weird. The other night we were using to exersize room to fool around. We were on the foam interlocking mats and both had worked up a sweat. With a sweaty lower back, whoever was on bottom turned into a human whoopie cushion. Distracting but still fun.

Up on the bar with you then.

Hi cutie. very nice pic.

I'll just squeeze myself in with those of you watching if that's OK. I've got cocktails.

I just listened to that song. It is very funny. Thanks

Soooo cute.

lol

Gosh she's cute!

I'm so glad you reviewed this. It's one of my favourite products. I find it great for solo play, especially if I'm in a hurry. My husband is also entertained by how engorged it makes me. I have very sensitive skin and fragrance allergies and have never had a problem with O'My products.

Thanks for all the great advice. Sorry it's taken me so long to get to you all. It does seem that angles with me on top are a problem. I was leaning back too far. Plus, he likes to be in control of the pace and rhythm. That CCyell thing - wow. Somebody has thought of everything. Tried the chair position (just tonight). Mixed reviews. Seems OK erection-wise, I just couldn't quite figure things out ya know. Physically fitness- probably not an issue. He's an avid runner and quite athletic; however he does have some medical things and is on some meds so will be asking the doc about that. Thanks again. What a great community here!

Wow is right! It's good to mix things up like that.

Mikayla- once again excellent advice and insights. It did make me feel guilty for the time I spent with blinders on hoping my problems would go away instead of making the effort to resolve them. Things are so much better now though. Iha, I don't think that there is any silver bullet for your situation, but maybe if we knew more something might switch on a light bulb. Can you and your wife talk about other tricky things in your marriage? Finances? Parenting? Whatever? Do you hold hands? Cuddle? How shut down is she? Is this situation new or has it always been like this? Does she have medical concerns? Meds? Depression? Menopause? Do you have common interests that don't involve sex? This might seem harsh but- does she love you? Knowing where you're really at might help us make suggestions. It occurs to me that there was one other thing that helped me when i was on my shaky road to opening up sexually. I would think of our bedroom as a place away from the rest of the world. The things that happened there were just meant for the two of us and the rest of the world didn't exist when we we playing, exploring. I visualized an imaginary tent over our whole room. Now I'm on here blabbing about it. If there's anything I can do let me know. If you get to the point where she has specific questions there is a whole pack of us here who would be willing to try to answer them. Or she could ask them through you.

Happy Birthday Sweetie. Hope you get lots of birthday surprises!

Of course TPBM worked out today

I bet you do. Lucky boy!