vanilla_bean

rage

envy

Awww thanks

Standing with my toes curled around the precipice I lean forward and throw my arms open wide falling, I'm not afraid because the landing is soft and warm it's home it's you

aware

health

False TPBM needs to eat dinner

glass

well

I only pretend to like my sister in law. There, got that off my chest.

True, althoug I wish I had ordered more. TPBM is looking forward to something.

How did you know? TPBM needs to buy new batteries!

Yup, I did. And I went again today.

Way to go!! You look awesome.

Not really. I guess I need to make some plans. TPBM is thinking that the future looks bright.

I'd say it's a good thing he's now an ex! Ungrateful guy!

Oooooh MsLayD! Yum!

True, every day TPBM should be helping someone right now.

on

If I'm going to go to the gym today, I need to be there in half an hour. Maybe I'm too lazy today.

Hi Girl. Welcome to TT. I really like Iha's advice to you. I wish that I had read that when I was in a similar position. I know that it can be hard to talk about sex. You don't want to hurt him or get hurt yourself, you don't want to make things worse. How do you even bring it up if you don't have a history of talking about it? And it all seems so silly because this is your life partner and you feel like you SHOULD be able to talk to him about it. Most of all, there is a fear of a bad reaction from him, maybe even rejection. What if you put yourself out there and he doesn't take you seriously or doesn't take you at all? So scary, right? You know what's worse? Not taking that scary leap of faith. It is hard at first. Admit to him that you're nervous bringing it up. Tell him that you fear he will not want you or whatever you're biggest fear is. Speak from the heart. Then comes the payoff. It gets much easier to talk about and you will be open to each other more than ever before. And it's fun to have this person you love and where nothing is off limits to talk about. Its scary, but so worth it. The alternative is to continue to grow apart. Don't take that route. Good luck! Let us Know how it goes.

Note to self: must get full length mirror.

Gosh, it's gotten steamy in here! I think I need to remove a couple articles of clothing.

Perhaps you would like some of us to blow on you to create a breeze?

It's so difficult to choose. So far I know I'm going to stock up on some lube and probably get a dual bullet. Other than that, I haven't decided! So many toys, so little time.....