I once read: A boy learns of love though intimacy, A man learns of love by getting to know the women inside. Something like that, don't think it's an exact quote. You get the point I'm sure.
My sex drive is definitely higher than my DH. What I'd like and what is realistic are two different things. Everyday, twice a day isn't realistic, I'd be thrilled with every other day, but that maybe a stretch too.
For as long as he needs.... and he never tires. As for cutting him short, I kid you not, I never have. If it wasn't going to happen one way we try another.