Brandy, do you enjoy oral sex for yourself? If so do you enjoy one technique more than another? Has DH experiment with different ways of pleasing you orally? Do you feel it's a power trip for you when he gives you oral? The above ?'s are just to make you think. I think oral is just another pleasurable sensation to experience for both the sexes, whether it's deep throat not. Talk to your DH see what he has to say about it. Pleasure is subjective to each individual.