I did forget about Mrs. Roper from three's company, but never watched Married with children, I think getting into a discussion about who does what and how much is counterproductive and leave it at that. The direct point to your response is what about the relationship? Does it suffer? Are both parties content? Ect.. If both are content, then it works for you, but what if they're not both content? what if one is struggling because of it?