There are so many things you can do. I suggest reading about techniques on the TooTimid educational page. In particular, read the article by Mikayla and husband about using a good lube. A good water-based or silicone lube (depending on your viscosity preference) makes it so much better! Then there are different positions (standing, sitting, kneeling, on your haunches), but the best thing is to take your time and enjoy. Fast and hard to a quick orgasm has its own special charm sometimes, but taking it slow and enjoying the feeling is terrific. As you masturbate and feel yourself getting close to the point of no return, stop until you get control back then start again. Stopping and starting like that for a while will drive you wild until you get to the point were you just have to cum! It has the added benefit of training yourself to control your orgasms; helpful when you have sex with a partner. I think some others have mentioned masturbation sleeves, pumps, etc. The cyberskin virtual touch sleeve is long enough for most guys to fit in without popping out of the end. Try that. I have to say though that the best sleeve I've every used isn't available on TooTimid. I've always wanted to find out if some toys are exclusive to certain sites? Is it possible to suggest a toy that TooTimid could put on their site?