Cinnamon

I'm glad to hear your experience was pleasant. My boyfriend and I have tried anal before once, only very briefly, since it was uncomfortable. I want to again eventually, but I'm now 4 weeks postpartum, and I noticed below my stitches, near my anus, there's a little swollen bit of flesh. First I thought it was simply part of the healing process, but now I'm worried it's a hemorrhoid. Will insurance pay to get this removed(medical/medicaid) or is it considered unimportant?

The ones we're looking at are only for the clit and don't penetrate, so from what I can tell, it's basically a bullet strapped to your clit. And since I hardly ever use a toy or vibrator, I expect it'll be enough for me, or hope anyway. I figured it wouldn't be too quiet, and honestly I don't mind, since that way he can't ask me to wear it out in public or anything, heh. Thanks for your input.

Hehe, I suggested to him that perhaps they were faking them, and he said no without skipping a beat - maybe he got lucky? Tbh I think I could get off vaginally with some "practice"(not sure what to call it), because usually I'll feel on the brink of an O, and never get over the hill. Anyway, this is what we were looking at --> http://shop.tootimid.com/7-function-venus-butterfly.aspx

So we were looking into getting a clit vibe and these popped up. They are a little cute, but I was wondering how well they worked. Anyone use these or something similar? What is the colored butterfly made out of? Does it desensitize your clit after wearing it too much? (and speaking of, does desensitizing your clit offer more vaginal orgasm opportunities?) Are they quiet and discreet? Where do you put the wire/remote so they don't get in the way? And finally, which one to get? There are so many! My oh so experienced boyfriend has always had women who came easily from vaginal sex only, and he thinks I am strange, and I'm a little timid(hehe) about explaining how to get myself off(or maybe I'm not that comfy around him yet too), so we are trying something new. I've only owned one sex toy, a plain pink vibe, so I'm not too knowledgeable with these yet.

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