Jump to content
Official Community Forums Home

RC4BLUE

Members
  • Posts

    2,044
  • Joined

  • Last visited

  • Days Won

    140

Everything posted by RC4BLUE

  1. Welcome! I think there are many that would be interested. Enjoy what is here.
  2. Glass is wonderful! It is easy to clean. You can engage in temperature play. Running glass under hot water will warm the glass and the feeling can be very nice. Coolong the glass will have a different sensation that can be quite intoxicating. Easily one of the best materials for a toy, in my opinion.
  3. The experience of youth.... Young men in particular need to learn what women really want. Often we have much to learn when we are young. Britta your description is priceless. There is so much power in being the giver of oral pleasure. As the receiver I find it honoring that my partner would wish to give me such a gift. If the gift results in climax, I do not need to see the results. I can feel the results.
  4. Welcome to the forum. I hope you enjoy.
  5. I am not a fan or any type of abuse. Emotional abuse cuts so much deeper than anything. I feel for your pain. I would encourage you to think about strengthening yourself, being confident and assertive. True happiness starts with yourself. I would be cautious entering into a relationship with someone other than the person you are currently with until your current relationship ends. I would hate to hear that there is an increase in the abuse, shame or doubt. The only way to know if the chance is worth the heartache is by being true to yourself. I hope you make the best decision for the person you are and the person you wish to be.
  6. We all deserve to be touched the way we want to be. If the relationship is right proceed on the path that is best for you.
  7. Welcome to the site. Yes at 60 there are many opportunities to meet attractive, passionate and beautiful women. I hope you find what you are searching for.
  8. I see you have discovered some of the individuals that are limited with the power of language and seduction. A crude word and a close up photo are not enough to entice a woman of intelligence. Often people for felt that the drive of fantasy and desire is driven from the tease and play of word and passion.
  9. True tantric sex take practice, openness and engagement of both people. It is great for some and not for others. One of the things to do is focus on pleasure. Remember sex is adult play time. Be playful. Too often we can take sex too seriously and forget to play and have fun. Start the erotic journey by engaging in seduction and desire a day or two before engaging in sex. Send a sexy test during the day. Flirt with your partner. Bring him to you, make him want you. Too often with the demands of work and children we can forget to be sexy. It can be hard to be on the same page when we are not thinking sexy thought, acting in sexy and talking about our desires.
  10. Yes honesty wihnyour partner is best. As well as being open with that person. That does not mean you tell that person everything. There such a thing as TMI. We all have our secrets, and there is nothing wrong with that. Yet when it come to our individual pleasure, be assertive, be open and be responsible for getting what you want and desire. What you decide to share in a public forum is expressly different that what you express to your lover. There is no need to share anything more than what you are completely comfortable with in a public space.
  11. Welcome to the site. Share, explore and enjoy.
  12. I’m on the side of letting your partner know what works for you, what you like and how to help you get there. The more he is able to know what you desire the better he will be at pleasing you. Open honest communication can be sexy and increase desire. If he is not happy to assist you to your pleasure then maybe he is the wrong man for you. Just my thoughts here.
  13. Get your orgasm when you can. Personally I find it extremely satisfying to have a woman achieve orgasm from oral. If during intercourse you need extra stimulation, then bring it. It’s all about pleasure.
  14. Welcome to the site. Please share what you like.
  15. The thing to remember is that there are hundreds of thousands of little nerve ending in the clitorial bulb and arms (that extend deep into the body). It is the only sport that was specifically designed for pleasure. For many women direst or indirect stimulation is the best way to a rive orgasm. Vibration can be an excellent source to bring about such a sensation. There are many women who enjoy the feeling of a g-spot or just the fullness of penetration sensation as well. The best thing is to experiment and discover what is best for you. For some women a rabbit toy is not the right shape or size to effectively achieve orgasmic release. Others swear by it. Either way, find what is best for you.
  16. I personally like the idea of going to a brick and mortar store to check out toys, even if I don't buy. It gives you a good idea of size, weight, strength of vibration, and feel,of material, for the devices. At that point you have an option to buy now or return home and buy in the privacy of your own space. As for Amazon, I can not say. I've never personally bought a toy from Amazon.
  17. You can try Lover's Lane. They have several Chicago area stores. Adam and Eve have a few store in the Chicago area as well. Enjoy, have fun and seek pleasure.
  18. Lies I have to agree with you. Cold glass can be quite enthralling. It's not for everyone, but wow the sensation can completely put you over the moon. Variety is the spice. πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ
  19. I will second Lis about glass and a bullet. The only thing about glass is it is sensitive to temperature and can be cold (or hot). You may wish to get the glass up toward body temperature, unless you like cold sensation, before use. Pay attention to the diameter of the toy. Given what you say, I suggest looking for something 1 inch or less in diameter to begin with. You may discover that you will desire something a bit more thick as you become accustome to the sensations and play. If you wish something a bit more soft, look at silicone. There are a number of silicone toys that are smaller, quieter and powerful. If you are looking at the retail side of this site, try looking under small vibrators. Read the discriptions and the reviews. Last thing, I know cost is a factor. Yet, I suggest you spend a little more on a vibe as the super cheap ones are just that - cheap, and won’t last very long for the most part. I suggest staying away from jelly or other material that is hard to clean and maintain.
  20. Some orgasms are earth shattering others are snap crackle pop. Keep getting to know your body and you will find the variety of pleasure you seek.
  21. Welcome to the site. Embrace your sexual orientation. There is no need to fear it. As for masturbation, it is a great way to get to know what you like and what feels good. To find orgasm be sure you are in a comfortable place, aroused and open to the sensations. Sometimes people stop when there is a intense feeling of pleasure and if they would keep going they would have the orgasmic release they are looking for. Also remember there are different types of orgasm and multiple erogenous zones that can be very satisfying to touch, stroke and manipulate to help you get where you wish to be. Mostly focus on pleasure and allow it to build.
  22. I like the response Brittany! Not impressed! Yes they are either trying to get a reaction or think you will be so aroused you will want a date. Wrong on both fronts! Hold your ground, be professional, and if they continue stop seeing them.
  23. Your not wrong. What you describe is a hazard of your occupation. It is unfortunate that some men and women try to take advantage of those there to help.
  24. From what I read her, you sound very normal. There are women who do not have orgasm from penetration. As for oral stimulation, that tends to be a most desired activity.
×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

Terms of Use & Privacy Policy