toohotcatmom

deleted

I'm so GLAD you asked that question! I was wondering the same thing. I've been "anal" while masturbating but haven't talked with Hubby about it yet - although I think he'll be a bit adverse. I think he thinks of it as too gay - which there's nothing wrong with - just something he's not interested in. But before I even talk to him about it I wanted to find out about cleanliness and all - so THANK YOU! To me - it's wonderful - especially double penetration....WOW!

I'm a late 40's bloomer...and I'm also in the "always horny" group without much of the other symptoms. I also have a hubby who's - shall we say - lagging behind a bit....he thinks I'm a nympho! (not really - but man I could jump him at any time - just thinking about it gets me wet!) I'm re-learning how to get him hot and up though....really been fun! Also learning how to give good head - mmmmm - yummy! So - I'm always wanting to hear from others and learn/share/etc. Glad you joined!

Since my sex drive has returned - and because I wanted to learn more about giving a good bj - I've been watching online porn - I love it actually. I do prefer those where they actually look like they're into each other - versus one I saw the other day that had the guy looking out the window while she was riding him....so not cool. I like girl on girl too and gay...love to watch a man jerk off too

Hello Tango - fellow mid-southerner! Seems all it took tonight was a bit of visual stimulation for hubby to "come" around! WEEEE!

Hi Jennifer! Take it from an older woman....30 is nothing! You have a lot of life ahead of you gal - and a lot of loving...don't forget it - and it DOES get better with age!

Thanks Valntyn, Oh he definitely knows I want it...in fact just about every time he even touches me I about explode - but he's not always "in the mood"...but I don't give up. After almost 27 years with this man, I do remember a few buttons to push and even last weekend he told me I was too hot to ignore (yea me!). I just hope to get him to the point where he wants to rip my clothes off as much as I do his on a more regular basis. All your advice and understanding even so quickly has at least made me feel like I'm not a freak! I'll definitely keep at it - and I've always got my little pink wonder toy - or course that's no substitution....

Thanks Randy! It really helps to hear a man's point of view. Hubby and I have miracously been able to talk about it for the most part - and I think he is feeling it a bit of "too good to be true". And he even told me he that's he's use to having his space and my being more sexual lately has been just a bit more than he's used to - so I think you're advice is right on the money! Believe me - I'm gonna keep trying!

Hi - I placed an order for a new toy and some other fun things last night and decided to check out the fourm - see if any other women are experiencing what I am.... I've recently stopped taking birth control pills - and I'm extremely horny all the time. I'm in a new job where I'm traveling Sunday night to Thursday night - and even though I have no problem masturbating during the week - it's not as satisfying as being with my man. However, we've not always had a great sex life - always satisfying just not very often - so he's a bit taken aback over the fact that I want him all the time. I can understand it to some point because I haven't been this way since we were first married 27 years ago - so it's quite different. How do I get him more interested more often? Any ideas would be helpful...and he's not into lingerie - although I wear it for me - makes me feel sexy. Oh - also, we've just discovered the joy of oral sex - well - let's say he's discovered it - and I like giving it - so I'm hoping it will soon be reciprocated in kind!