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I forgot one... In a deserted parking lot at a lake, on the ground beside his car. (We decided it was too small, It was a Fiero remember those?) getting sand/pebbles stuck in my knees.

Hey! Pinky you have to tell us yours too! Uh Oh where do I start.... Under a main bridge in my town, In a shed that was on display at a store that sells sheds (and a couple walked in on us). In the stairwell in my High school. In the woods (Ah the trusty woods) All these were from way back when...

I don't care but I think he would! What do they call that, "snowballing"?

Mine is because I have a tattoo of a Sunflower on my L ankle, You can probably see it in my gallery, the one with the fishnets is me! and 969 is when my birthday is (see I bet you all thought it was because I am into doing 69... Shame shame )

It has taken much more that this to shake my faith. I could go on and on but thanks for your nice words

Again... It makes me wonder. If there is a reason for everything, can someone explain this one???!!! I bet not!

Maybe just decorations you know to make it "pretty" LMFAO

As long as you feel safe and are in control it is your call. GEEZ how did this thread turn into the date rape and scary forced first time thread??? I guess that is just the way it goes for some girls. You virgins out there be careful! Make sure you feel comfortable with the guy, get to know him for a WHILE! I would say at least a few months before you give it up and make sure the guy stays sober! I seriously did not think this kind of thing still happened in this day and age. Cripes who are these cave men and who the hell are their parents?????

Okay I don't consider myself a prude. I love tattoos and piercings to a certain extent. I am in the market for a new tattoo and have been checking out local parlors on line to see galleries and stuff. I saw this pic, of a dude's penis. He is pierced multiple times and it looked really um... I'll just say it, SCARY. Does anyone have experience with this? Please share! Who does this??? And who is "doing" the guy who has it done? What is sex like for either??? Here is the link, but let me warn you it is not for the conservative or faint of heart: http://www.piercingemporium.com/photos/v/p...dydoes.jpg.html This should be interesting!

I used to offer BJ's to my husband if he would clean the catbox... LOL

LMFAO doesnt it figure!!! I bet you were raging out of control and now it 's like, oh yeah my period... I do this all the time! have like a freaking breakdown and then the next day, aunt flo is here! I would have gone mental though about the lice as well! I had it many years ago, it's so gross!!! I would freak if my girls got it!!!

Trojans make me get a rash! Durex makes a "pleasure" pak so you have options I like that one. But not for long because my husband was snipped!

I am sitting here feeding my 4 month old reading this. Iha has a good point, as always. It sucks when you are trying desperately to conceive and everyone else around you is getting pregnant. It happened to me too, I suffered with infertility for years, I had miscarriages, the whole 9... Now after we literally gave up, I have 3 children and the shoe is on the other foot. I have friends now who are really struggling trying to have a baby. One friend of mine was pregnant at the same time as me last year. While her pregnancy was via in-vitro and mine was unplanned and a complete surprise, we had the same due date. She ended up miscarrying... Sometimes I wonder if there is a God. Especially when you read stuff like that. It makes no sense. I definitely feel for you Angel...

HA HA YOU liked that! I was like what the hell! sitting there waiting, all worked up...

Here is an email correspondence from this afternoon... Pink is me, blue is him... I really wish I could have you right now...I miss you. MMMMM me too I am shaking my legs thinking about you! Now I want to tonight, but can we do our best to make it a little early tonight? I have to be well rested for my presentation tomorrow which is at 10:15AM. So I want to try and get as much sleep as possible...Ok? Whatever you say baby... That's a good girl... YOU are making me feel naughty!!! Good!! You ARE naughty. I'm going to make you feel a lot more once I get my hands on you. STOP IT!!! ...or not You are a bad girl!! I like that... So what do you have in mind that you want to do, once you get your hands on me? A little bit of everything. Starting with me sliding my hands up and down your sexy legs, then up to your breasts. Then slowly kiss your body from head to toe until I hear you start moaning. Do you want to hear some more? SURE how far do you want to take this? I can take it as far as you wanna go...all the way. After that I'm going to slowly kiss your lips while at the same time sliding my hand right in between your legs. Little by little get closer and closer to your clit. Once I get there I'll rub it nice and slow, make it nice and wet and swollen. More? YES, I already am wet and swollen While I'm doing that I'm going to ask you if you like it. Then I'm going to get some nice warm lube and spread it all over your clit gently rubbing it up and down. Then I'll get on my knees and let you suck me at the same time as I am touching you. As I get harder and harder I'll rub you more and more intensely until your c*m really hard. More? Are you hard now? And a half an hour later I had no response!!! Talk about frustrating!!! So after I finished myself off, I emailed him again... OK well I couldn't wait for you... You are taking way too long! I just came, imagining you in my mouth... I am still throbbing Still no response! so I called him... He was on his way home for some afternoon delight! So when he got here we had about 20 min. We had a very successful quickie I must say! Spring is in the air!!!

I know this is an old post but I got to thinking it would be fun! I was 15, My bf was also. We had been getting pretty hot and heavy for awhile and one Friday night at the roller rink (yeah that's right!) we sneaked outside... I can not remember all the details but I do remember that it was in December, we were behind some bushes on a pile of snow. luckily I had a long wool coat under me. He was really hard, the first hard penis I had ever seen, not too bad either He put on a condom and got on top of me. With out too much trouble he inserted it. A little pain but not too bad. After thrusting for maybe a minute or less, he came... And would you believe he asked me "Was it good for you?" I was like "Oh, um, yeah, yeah it was good..." I had NO IDEA!!! LOL

Although for most women the first time isn't the greatest mindblowing experience we wish it would be. You can still make it great for her, she will never forget her first time! I would say be gentle and TAKE YOUR TIME, go SLOW and really make the night all about HER. Maybe a bubble bath, and/or a massage first. Mind you it will most likely not be the best of her life because everyone has to work toward that, it takes practice! Don't put too much emphasis on her having an orgasm since she is a virgin she may not know how or be able to yet. Focus on each other and how much you love her. If only I could have had a well thought out plan for my first time!!!

That's HOT!

CRIPES!!! hilarious and horrifying at the same time! Did YOU do this or is it a story? God bless you if you did!

1. what do you do for a living? : Stay at home Mom, I used to work in early childhood education for 18 years... 2. children: 3: 2 girls 5 and 4, and a 4 month old boy 3. pets? NO 4. tats/piercings? 1 sunflower tattoo on the inside of my L ankle, one more soon... 4 ear piercings 5. what is in your cd player in your car? If I had one (cd player) it would be Foo fighters 6. fav. tv show? Currently I like the Tudors 7. what are you reading? VS catalog! LOL

Remember these words... Slow and steady wins the race...

I can totally relate! It used to be that he would bring me to orgasm first via manipulation or oral sex. Then we would have intercourse. We never used toys until recently! I find that through trial and error we have figured out what works for us and it is a little different than it used to be. You have to kind of find your niche. Like when he is behind you, if you aren't really feeling a build up, or heavy stimulation, you should try a shift. like drop one leg or lay your body down with your ass still up and legs open. I will tell him if something isn't giving me as much pleasure. Plus he can tell. The thing is for us we will keep switching until we find the right groove. If I am completely aroused and feeling stimulated inside, He feels it too and it stimulates him. It is win win! I am sure your H will be open to whatever you want to try. I really think it is different for everyone. Lots of women say they can only cum on top. I cant stay on top for more than 10 min and it is way too much work! I get exhausted. Also if you cum before him you could cum again! Just keep going! I find if I have orgasmed (usually a few times) before we have intercourse I am so aroused that I orgasm almost immediately after he penetrates me AND when he is getting ready to "blow" Whoa I can feel it and I pretty much have gone off simultaneously with him the last few times. IT'S NUTS! since I was unable to even imagine this was possible in the past! Good ones for us lately are the "deck chair" or Doggy style and variations ... We'll talk later!

Hey Pinky! My girls do it ALL the time! Mostly when they are bored, on the couch. I usually tell them they need to go in their bedroom to do it. My 5 year old will say OK and actually go do it in her bed. I have to limit her time in there because she would do it all day. It is a little unsettling, she gets all sweaty and I can hear her kind of breathing heavy. I try not to get weirded out, I know it is normal and natural. My 4 year old will stop if I ask her to go in her bedroom. I think she looks at it as punishment. Although I have told her it is OK just needs to be in private. She doesn't quite understand. I also try to provide some distraction for them to get involved in something else, a game, toys etc. I don't remember doing any of that until I was probably around 12ish myself! Having worked in Early Childhood for 18 years, I was taught that you shouldn't say anything that would make the child feel like they are doing something wrong or make them feel ashamed. A distraction is the best way. Hey it's their body, but you have to teach them what is acceptable and appropriate in public.

This is really good advice I have 2 little girls, 4 and 5. They like to "explore" it seems when they are bored. I do tell them to go in their bedroom if they want to do that , it needs to be in private. I don't want them to ever feel bad or guilty for discovering themselves. I would have been better off myself if I was parented in this way. As with probably most women around my age!