allvantage12

As a straight male, I would like to just say YES! I love anal play. The orgasms are amazing and the connection I felt when my past girlfriend did it to me was undeniable. Unfortunately I have not been able to convince my wife to try it on me. She absolutely refuses me to try it with her. She doesn't know what she is missing. Anyway, you will not be disappointed if you try it and neither will he!! Good luck!!

I must say that I was happy to see that there are other individuals who are excited by this. I have been practicing anal stimulation for a number of years, and it seems to only get better. I started by curiousity - wondering what it might feel like for women. I quickly found that the added stimulation made my orgasms different.... I could orgasm without ejaculating. Occasionally, many times before I finally exploding with tremendous force. I have worked my way from using my fingers to being able to completely take a Doc Johnson King Kong. I would like something a little bigger than that now. My problem is that my wife doesn't like anal anything. She won't let me touch her there except when she is almost to the point of orgasm I sometimes brush the area and it always seems to push her over the edge. Of course it could be coincidence! I have gotten her to lightly brush my anal area occasionally while she is giving me a handjob (she won't do blowjobs either) and there is nothing like the touch of your lover - it sends tingles up my spine. How do I get her to open up more? She claims to have never masturbated also and thinks that my toys are disgusting - what do I do??

I have to agree with "always." I love anal stimulation. I started doing this to myself when I was young because I wanted to know how it felt for a woman. I found that it felt incredible. I never admitted to anyone that I liked it, because of the stigma that would go along with it. Over the years, I have moved to larger and larger toys, always on my own though. Then one day, a new lover was giving me oral sex and started to lightly touch my anus. I couldn't help but moan. So she went a little further with her fingers. I exploded shortly after. All these years later, I have been unable to get my wife to try anything. I only wish she would give it a chance but, unfortunately, she is quite prudish. Hopefully I might meet someone special one day to help me experience this.

Ok, so I have read Steph & Jeremy's posts, and I have to say that I am on the other end of the scale. I am also not homophobic, but I don't feel I have anything to prove to others - so I guess that does not make me a "man's man" either. I found the delights of playing with my ass while I masturbate early in my teens. I kept it my secret until I was 25 when one of my girlfriends decided to penetrate me with her finger while giving me a BJ. It was awsome!! All these years later, I am now married to a different lady (almost 7 years now) and have told her of my "secret desire" and she will not do it. I would love to have her experiment with me and my ass in any way she wishes!! Jeremy, I am jealous!! Take your women up on her offer - you won't be dissapointed! Just remember to take it slow, start small and use lots of lube. After your first orgasm this way - you'll be hooked! Steph - good luck and be gentle

You are definately not a whore. With all the concern that you show that you want everything to be right, I comend you. I wish my wife took some lessons from you and was willing to experiment that way!!

Good luck!! I'm sure he will love it!! Have some lube available as well and take it slow - he will let you know how far to go! I have been trying to get my wife to do this to me for a couple years now - and suggestions? I am not gay at all, but something about the thought of a sexy woman playing with my ass, or especially using a strap-on just gets me hard!!