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(long since i have posted) my and my boy had the moooostt amazinngg session the other day and we just both collapsed too tired tooo drained, too numb and weak to even think about wanting anything we just cuddled laid together for probably an hour the convo my boy "babe can you get me some water?" me " nooo i cant move, you get it and get me some" my boy " nooo i cant move either, i have no more energy left" both at the same time "fuck ittt"

when the word HARD come out of my mans mouth, i start droolingg he says "fuck you got me so hard" i go WILD lol

thanks for the advice i tried to talk about it and i gotta got 1/2 of everything out and then he ignored me the rest of the weekend so ive pretty much just chalked it up to hes an asshole and i tried!

heyy everyboddyy.. i know i can always find great advice here so i need some help to find the words to say... ive been busy the last just over a month going through a crazy rollarcoaster ride with one of my good friends whos now in the hospital after a car accident.. to make it short, he was a calvin klein model, pro soccer player, had a great gf and everything goin for him and he decided he was missing something in his life and had a little life crisis and he moved to vancouver to figure out things out.. and essentially, (hes a very close family friend of mine, pretty much my big brother) all of my familyand his family believe he was trying to commit suicide by not wearing his seatbelt and getting into an intentional car accident.. now hes at a hospital in toronto (air lifted from vancouver) and now has had both legs amputated above the knee, one arm amputated at the elbow, both eyes removed (now blind) and has no teeth, no nose, and ALOT of surgeries ahead to fix his completely shattered face and alot of physiotherapy.. all of this has really affected my life as im watching him struggle and wish he was dead bascially, he says he wants to die everyday... it made me think of a few ppl in my life that ive lost touch with, or ended on bad terms and made me want to fix things.. theres one person in particular that i had deep feelings for and we kinda grew apart because we got busy, well HE got busy and neglected me and i got mad about that lol however, the only conversations ive had with this guy recently have been emotional, harsh and just overall really frustrating and i just want everything to be okay...! essentiall i want to clear things up with this person and move past this road block in our relationship because of my friend andre's car accident.. but im at a loss of words, i dont know how to say it! i apologize for typeos!

i wouldnt even give him the experience of getting hit with a baseball bat from me! i wouldnt give him a reaction really, he doesn't deserve one haha NO ONE CHEATS ONE ME lol i would just walk way, he doesnt respect me enough to be faithful, he doesnt get my respect in an answer or beating lol i would just be like "oh. okay. bye" walk away

thats exactly what my bf said too! that i was the only girl that could take him down.. well his penis is intimidating.. at least 2 inches wide and approx 8 inchs semi hard.. haha yah i actually LOVE the feeling of his dick down my throat and i can feel that tightness..right now im working on the breathing so i can keep him in longer.. for the spit issue (because there is some thick GROSS spit haha ) i usually swallow some of it while hes down my throat and it feels good for him, and actually calms my gag... any tips for the breathin to be able to keep him in longer? I try my best not to panic cause then ur instinct is to pull it out right away

haha thanks! ive had that education plan mapped out since gr 8 pretty much! haha yesss.. the inner kinky is a wonderful thing! now i firmly believe everyone has an 'inner kinky' they just might not be aware of it haha but in time, in time...

try to bring it out of her ! after my bf did, WOW once u can get past that kinda prude-ness your good to go!

maybe, my boyfriend does this to me, he will get me excited by cuddling and kissing my neck on the couch and then whispering what he wants to do to me in my ear and then im thinkin about it and i want it and then he runs his hand over my body, and rubs me outside my clothes and then around the waist of my pants/etc and then i want it REALLY BAD maybe try that is she comfortable telling you, in detail what she would want to do to you start to finish? (like from the moment u start making out to cuddling after sex - including foreplay for want she wants to give/get and sex) i find as soon as i was comfortable doing that i was more open to doing/wantin those things

i dont think so, because she was non responsive to the texts right,she said lol and yeah but sometimes inaction is action - by not saying no im sorry u cant talk to me that way is still making herself kinda open to it right even if she doesnt say yes baby i want you too etc. for me even dirty talk with someone is a cheatin thing.. i want to give everything to my boyfriend, whenever he needs or wants it, even if i don't feel like it... i always want to please him and if he were to even talk dirty to another girl on line i would be mad.. if he said i did it cause he was horny i would be like if ur horny talk to me, text me call me email me for fucks sake i have an iphone i check everything right away lol i want to be enough for him and to be the person who can please him all the time, everytime and i dont want him even feeling for a second he needs to get it from someone else.

me and my boyfriend, if we have time sometimes we gotta squeeze the quickie, but perferrably we both take turns going down on each other for like at least an hour! Usually edging, but sometimes at first i might give him head and make him cum and then he will go down on me for a bit, and by the time he edges me to orgasm a few times hes ready for me to go back down on him... usually ill have tops 2 orgasms, sometimes none and then we are both so aroused we have slow teasing sex/penetration (usually one person teasing the other unwillingly haha) and then when we cant take it anymore we go wild... usually my boyfriend can 40 minutes if its wild intense sex, more toward an hour and half if its more sensual love making haha i dont get bored of the long time for either department...

how do people not liking giving or getting oral? blows my mind! have you tried to have a more serious out of the bedroom talk with her... even my boyfriend, if were just watching tv doin nothing will just give me oral and then go right back to chillin like nothing happened! And im there, wanting to give back to him... He says "i love doing it and don't need anything back from you because i enjoy giving you pleasure" when he says that WOW i go crazy and have to get physical, sometimes even force him down hehe

good analogy eventually in the case of addiction, or substance abuse situations there comes a breaking point for family/friends (if there is any left at this point, for some people sadly they're isn't) where they attempt to stage an intervention ...that kind of you get clean or else situation, one last attempt kind of thing... my friend battled a cocaine addiction from 16-18, and her family attempted an intervention at about 17, and then just gave up and lost hope for her, and let it go... eventually a guy friend stepped in, and shes been clean for about a year.. she still doesn't admit she was ever addicted, or had a problem.. she says addictions are bad and she liked when she did cocaine.. breaks my heart

heyy thought i would formally introduce myself... 19 f Currently living away from home at Carleton University (Ottawa Ontario) for Journalism and Mass Communications with a double minor in Political Science and Economic Public Affairs and Policy Management.. yup its a mouthful! I'm planning on travelling to England to do a Masters Degree and then to Queens University for Law School In an awesome relationship with the greatest guy in the world - i feel so lucky! And have been able to 'release the inner kinky' i guess you could say - life is good, and sex is even better! I kinda read posts, and followed the board before I joined and now i love to check it everyday

yah im actually really curious about the shot! i heard that it really fucks up your period thou for some people, like some people wont get it for 6 months (now that can be a blessing haha) but then after u might get it really bad like my friend had her period for 3 1/2 weeks another time! however its really effective and sometimes after being on the shot for a while, if you stop getting it, you might not get pregnant for up to 2 years! (depends thou and should be relied on for birth control) you get the shot every 3 months from your doctor the best birth control is no sex, but thats not fun at all!

birth control pills we both got tested before we starting dating and were monogamous and sometimes condoms, not as often as we should, but he usually cums on me cause i like it, and sometimes i even catch it in my mouth hahah! (sometimes mid air kinda like im catching a piece of candy someone threw up in the air for me to eat! lol its funny )

does she rarely push herself sexually, out of her comfort zone? thanks what im sensing lol i never used to be as 'freaky' or into pushing myself/doing new things sexually - even though i thought them.. everyone wants to be better sexually and do more wild things they just don't have the guts to do it or talk about it definitely talk to her! any good partner should love to try new things and do whatever they can to satisfy the other... to get her to go down on you, say something like "babe i really love when you ________ (suck on my cock/give me head/etc)" and then while shes giving you head when she does something you like say something like "ohh babe i love when you do that, keep going, ..etc. etc." and then as ur talking to her and shes probably saying a few words back ...say something you would like her to try by making it an suggestion "try to ____ (see how much u can take down/suck harder/etc" and then when she does it reallly let her know you like it ... and then after ward, tell her how great it was and when she did the things you asked it was really amazing and be like "damn that was so good, i want you to do that everyday!" slowly, she will crack! lol

i kinda skimmed this article, although my imput may be of little value as seeing how i cannot relate but insight from my parents may be helpful.. my mom had several miscarriages before being able to actaully give birth to my older brother.. it was very stressful and damaging to my parents young relationship and marriage.. so much so my mom was really depressed and my father was left, with his hands up in surrender and shrugging and with no idea what to do.. my mom even considered getting a divorce because she had lost all sexual attraction, and all emotions toward my dad... but my dad told her everyday he didnt want that because he loved her, and was hopeful things would be resolved and he was willing to do anything it took... gradually my dad, through being hopeful, supportive and even by slowly rekindling the relationship (cuddles on the couch, unexpected hugs and kisses etc.) my mom was able to grow and look to the future... and a few months later she got pregnant, and eventually had my brother with no complications at all! i think essentially you need to remain the way my father did, patient (although u have shown this, continue it) and hopeful and willing to help in any way.. i am confident things will turn around! personally i dont believe in divorce, i believe everything can be rekindled if the feelings were there in the first place!

annoy haha

i know! im suprised! lots of practicing! and he's a clever one, hes like i bet you need to deepthroat every day to maintain the skill right? hehe

wine!

love

just an update! I FEEL LIKE A GODDESS hehe FINALLLYYY i can now take pretty much his whole 8 inches down my throat.. i can go all the way down, nose to his stomach.. mind you i can only hold it for 5 seconds tops but im working on the technique now! i finally got over the 5inch block, and the whole gag after we tried a girl on top 69... him working on my clit with his tongue distracted me and i could take him all the way down! then we tried a few different positions and i could still do it! yay oh and my rewarddd... later in that session i squirt for the first time! FAIR DEAL OR WHAT

haha it was the opposite for me and my bf i had considered doing it before he said anything, i hinted at it, and i guess he was thinking it too cause a few days later he mentioned it! it just takes a little bit to get over the stigma and kinda warm up to the idea, but now were both totally ready...

Subject says it all! finally gotten the courage to experiment with anal play with my boyfriend... haha! he's been asking for it! whats a good starter toy for a man? Any suggestions!? * i was reading around and guess i should be more specific.. something for anal prostate stimulation for him, doesnt havent to vibrate a kinda dildo i can control manually would be best...maybe even something we both can use?