Let me just start off, by saying, this usually doesn’t bother me, in fact I usually don't even think about it, but sometimes I can’t help but get moody and depressed about my situation. With that said, my husband and I got into a small argument (what we consider an argument anyway) this morning about his disinterest in giving. I’ve always liked oral sex, just the idea of a guy doing that turns me on so much, but my husband isn’t into it. In the past, I’ve asked him what I should do to make it better for him. I’ve tried every trick in to book, shaving (even though I despise doing it because of the itching), eating nothing but fruits and veggies for a whole day, flavored lubes, barriers and right after a shower, and almost every other trick I can find. None of it works. He’s just so stubborn about it because he says it’s gross. I’ve asked him what was so bad, and for every reason he gave I had a solution, but he’s just not willing to do it, or even compromise. I’m just so frustrated at this point, it’s becoming hurtful. I love going down on him, I love watching him squirm and tense up when I’m doing something he enjoys, but I just don’t understand why he doesn’t want to do it for me. I’ve pointed this out to him but he simply says, he’d never ask me to do it if I didn’t enjoy it, so my argument there isn’t even applicable. I just wish he’d just do it anyway, I can count on one hand the number of times he’s done it, but only once did he ever finish. It’s not like I even want it every day, once or twice a month would be fine, anything at all would be fine at this point. Is there anything I can do to bring him around? Or should I just do the guy thing and get over it? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I really hope I didn’t make him sound like too much of an ass. He’s really pretty awesome, besides this one hang up. It’s just aggravating.