ok, so I read all the ones on here, and, instead of being reassured, I felt like more of a freak! I mean, I'm always completely open with my fiance about my fantasies, and I KNOW what I like, but you guys disappointed me! I really like anything new. back when we were just dating, I was teasing him over the phone for about a week and when I finally went over, I thought I'd be in total control. I was wrong. every since then, we keep random knives and the like kept around the house. things will start getting heavy, and one of us (inevitably) will try to move us strategically to wherever our closest power trip is. bondage is great too, and you can't NOT be submissivewhen a sharp blade is pressing into your throat.