ticklemefunny

well.... thank you

how'd you get a picture on here?

Thanks! I need more friends! I feel like I'm minding everyone's business if I read what's posted..

So, I have to ask - how long would you stay in a relationship that had NO sex or really bad sex? How long would you try to have conversations or read books or try to change things before you would just say ENOUGH - I NEED SOME SEX!!! well, we've gone without sex now for weeks. Anytime i DO get it-- it's initiated by me. He is just not interested. I started to think it was me, I dont have the best self-body image at all. I've talked to him about it, I've told him when we are doing it (yeah- i've had to schedule it) and nothing has changed. Having sex with someone who doesn't want to is a real turn off. My marriage in and of itself is a complete sham. I'm not happy with him, and he's obviously not happy with me. We have been together for 14 years, we have kids, a house, car payments, yadda yadda. So its more convienence than anything else. I haven't ventured out to have sex with other men YET, but it is going to happen. I've even told him I am going to cheat on him. He either doesn't believe me, or doesn't care. So the longest I think I can go is 6 months. my b.o.b. is a fine companion sometimes, but I like to be touched and kissed too.

So, hi.. I'm new. Hence the post in the introduce yourself forum. I used to be extremely prude, thinking that toys were for freaks or something. Since about the beginning of this year, all that has changed. I own only a few, basic, beginner toys but i love them. I love women, I love men... um, thats it. Anything else you wannna know.. just ask!

Hi!

hey.. I'm a jersey girl too. I just joined yesterday.