Hello I am new to this site also, but i can give ya some idea of what i like. I like it when a woman takes it slow and easy, licks up, down, around my shaft, while fondling with my balls, the occasionally inserting the head into your mouth, and sucking softly... you can alternate on sucking my head, and taking my balls into your mouth .... btw ... im clean shaven so you dont have to worry about getting hair into your mouth ... what most women dont realize, is part of the shaft extend past the balls but not all the way to the rectum, find that part of the shaft and rub it, sometimes it takes alittle pressure to get some response... you should be able to tell when climax is approaching, we start to throb some, and penis will expand even more ...... hope this helps you out