Members sun_flower969 Posted May 13, 2010 Members Report Share Posted May 13, 2010 Last night I told my Husband we could never have sex again, after we finished the session we were in. Because for me, there is NO WAY we will ever top it! I can't imagine it ever being better than it was last night! countless orgasms, I squirted so many times and a LOT every time... it was crazy I lost total control...The thing is, I say that every time, "how could it get better??" and I am always surprised! Is this how it is in other peoples marriages? Does it keep getting better? I know for some it becomes stagnant but what about for others?Care to share? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hyokahey Posted May 14, 2010 Members Report Share Posted May 14, 2010 Absolutely better. And here is why I think so:LTR's have so much potential for continued growth in (emotional, psychological, spiritual) intimacy. If a couple is willing to do the work that is needed to move beyond many of the predictable issues and troubles of LTR, the rewards on the 'other side' are amazing. Only in LTR, I believe, can there be the incredible nuance, depth of meaning, and soul-stirring exchange that I now experience. It is, in effect the kind of 'knowing' your partner that is used in the Bible. This goes beyond the physical, though the physical aspect IS far more intense, to the point of the full meaning of the word 'ecstasy'. So yes, it does get better and better, but it is a multi-dimensional 'better'. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ilovebabyjada Posted May 14, 2010 Members Report Share Posted May 14, 2010 i think i may be completely blonde, but what's LTR? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mailahn97 Posted May 14, 2010 Members Report Share Posted May 14, 2010 i think i may be completely blonde, but what's LTR?long term relationship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted May 14, 2010 Author Members Report Share Posted May 14, 2010 long term relationshipAhhh you beat me! I was trying to get on here to reply!Absolutely better. And here is why I think so:LTR's have so much potential for continued growth in (emotional, psychological, spiritual) intimacy. If a couple is willing to do the work that is needed to move beyond many of the predictable issues and troubles of LTR, the rewards on the 'other side' are amazing. Only in LTR, I believe, can there be the incredible nuance, depth of meaning, and soul-stirring exchange that I now experience. It is, in effect the kind of 'knowing' your partner that is used in the Bible. This goes beyond the physical, though the physical aspect IS far more intense, to the point of the full meaning of the word 'ecstasy'. So yes, it does get better and better, but it is a multi-dimensional 'better'.I absolutely agree!! I have always felt that in a long term relationship, you sort of "evolve" with each other! It never "just happens" It takes time and work and trust to get there!!This is how it is supposed to be!Glad you are back, not everyone gets that! Oh and Ufunny... I am Blonde!! haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ilovebabyjada Posted May 14, 2010 Members Report Share Posted May 14, 2010 long term relationshipwell on that note, I think that it does keep getting better and better. the more you have been with someone, the more you (should) trust them, and be able to be open. you can talk and learn how to experiment. you learn a whole new level of love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mailahn97 Posted May 14, 2010 Members Report Share Posted May 14, 2010 well on that note, I think that it does keep getting better and better. the more you have been with someone, the more you (should) trust them, and be able to be open. you can talk and learn how to experiment. you learn a whole new level of love.I agreee that it does keep getting better as you build that trust and comfort with them. You hopefully are able to talk about everything and anything which is how it was for me. That connection is so much better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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