Members yukigurl Posted April 3, 2011 Members Report Share Posted April 3, 2011 I just had a baby about a month ago, and the doctor has not okayed me to have sex.In fact it'll be at least 2 more weeks before I can.However, my husband and I have our needs.What can we do to satisfy them without actually having vaginal sex?Please, anyone? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted April 3, 2011 Report Share Posted April 3, 2011 Oral pleasuring for him, hand jobs, are a good idea to try for him. If your breasts are sore (if you're breastfeeding or not), you can always have him "tittie-fuck" you too. That's rather fun, especially if you like your breasts stimulated.However, having a baby myself, I can honestly say that you should WAIT to have any sexual activity, down there. When they say no sexual activitiy for at least 6 weeks, they mean it. If you just had a baby, then you need to allow your body to heal itself, so you don't cause any damage, which could lead to a longer healing (and no sex) time. Especially if you had an apesiotomy (when they have to cut your vaginal opening near your anus to make room for the baby)-I probably spelled that procedure waaaaaaaaaaaaay wrong!! LOLIt's a small sacrifice to do for having such a wonderful bundle of joy! Congrats!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ToyQueen Posted April 3, 2011 Members Report Share Posted April 3, 2011 I'm with Tyger here. It is VERY important that you wait. Even if you had a vaginal delivery without an episiotomy, there can be scratches and scrapes along your vaginal walls. They need time to heal. If you had a c-section, all of those layers inside need to heal. You can give him blowjobs,handjobs, whatever---but as far as your own "needs", they will have a chance to be satisfied...Congrats on the new baby!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted April 3, 2011 Members Report Share Posted April 3, 2011 Yes, I'm in agreement also.... You should wait but there is no reason your hubby has to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members yukigurl Posted April 3, 2011 Author Members Report Share Posted April 3, 2011 Thank you everyone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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