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[darrell w]

my girlfriend has never seen a porn movie or had a sex toy but she will not go to the sex store to get her one should pick it out myself because i would really like to see her fuck herself with a toy

[Kami]

Im not really sure what your question is.... I think you are asking if you should go and buy a toy for your girlfriend because she won't got and buy one. You want her to because you think it would be hot to watch her use it.. I could not agree with you more.

Has she stated why she won't go to the store? It could just be that she is shy... That being said she might be more comfortable viewing online, there are numerous sites including TT. Also there prices are normally lower then local shop even after factoring in shipping.

If you decide to get one on your own, this is actually what I did for my gf at the time (now wife) was purchased a simple vibrator which was added on top of a birthday.. I gave it to her when she was naked and blindfolded.. she now has lots of toys which she has picked out herself also.

Hope that helps, If I missed the point let me know.

[mystofpric]

my girlfriend has never seen a porn movie or had a sex toy but she will not go to the sex store to get her one should pick it out myself because i would really like to see her fuck herself with a toy

Short answer: Sure, why not?

Long answer: Why won't she go to the store? Is she embaressed? Is she just not into it? I'm gonna share a story. I love toys, have for many many many years. My older sister, 5 year difference, only just bought her first one last year. Now, is my sister a prude? Nope! From what I understand lady has skills! But she just wasn't interested, she figured if she wanted sex she'd either get it or do with out. I tried explaining to her that it was different than sex. And why go without getting your rocks off any way? Well when she got married I offered to buy her one for times that she wasn't with her hubs (they are both rock stars in the military) and again she said no. I have no idea what changed but last year she asked me for a site where she could buy one and if i had any recommendations that weren't too scary (I'd shown her my vast collection and it may have scared her) so I made a few recommendations and sent her here. Now she's happy and has a few (i think). So it may just be a timing issue. Also porn is notoriously a "guy's thing" and so some women don't feel comfortable watching them. For that I would recommend easing her into it with a few dirty non-porn movies. But before you push her into anything talk to her, make sure she'd be okay with it. Then come back here and ask the women for advice on what to start her off with.

[Tyger]

Not sure what the question is here either.

Some girls are deeply offended by porn, so just grabbing a porn for the sake of watching one isn't a great idea. I'd go for one that was directed by a woman, for women to start out with. Talk with your GF about it before shocking her with it by just popping it into the DVD player.

Second, sex toys are a fun, yet serious thing to introduce. When I was younger, there was NO way you were going to get me to fuck myself with some plastic thing. Nope, uh-uh, no way. My first sex toy was a hard plastic generic, non-phallic looking thing, that took 2 C batteries to roar it to life. Though it was pretty un-intimidating, I didn't care for it. The second sex toy I had was in my mid-20's, and it was a bullet. THAT'S what got me to change my mind about sex toys. I picked it out, I tried it solo first, then allowed my BF to use it with me.

Is she scared of them? How was she brought up? Has she ever tried one, honestly? Bad experience if so? There are many questions to be asked before just tossing a vibrator on the bed, or a DVD in the machine.......