Kami

agreed! But to each there own I guess..

lol, not the animals and dead people and a lot the questions in that area.

Your Final Score: 48.4% It just kept going down.... Btw Kace beat you by 0.4%!

Yea, sorry, I was referring to length of time you would be wearing it. I have been looking for a really long term, but have not found one yet. This one is my favorite "DreamToys Stainless Steel Jewel Butt Plug, Small. There is a larger version which I just ordered. I don't think you can get it from TT I can wear this one for 1-2 hours w/o any issue. Great for those errands etc, its also heavy, so you know its there, plus it won't pop out, as it has a really thin extension before the base. It's also on the smaller side, and Very easy to clean and can also have fun with heating and cooling it. If you find another let me know, All the others I have tried you need help to keep them in place. hope this helps

What type of time frame are you looking for?

My Wife was on Anti anxiety meds for 6 months and noticed a difference, that her orgasms we not as powerful. She came off the medication and said that one of the first times she masterbated after coming off was her most powerful one to that point. Her sex drive did not go up :/

So for all that are involved in pegging/role reversal, is cross dressing part of this, and if so how far do you take it?

Im not really sure what your question is.... I think you are asking if you should go and buy a toy for your girlfriend because she won't got and buy one. You want her to because you think it would be hot to watch her use it.. I could not agree with you more. Has she stated why she won't go to the store? It could just be that she is shy... That being said she might be more comfortable viewing online, there are numerous sites including TT. Also there prices are normally lower then local shop even after factoring in shipping. If you decide to get one on your own, this is actually what I did for my gf at the time (now wife) was purchased a simple vibrator which was added on top of a birthday.. I gave it to her when she was naked and blindfolded.. she now has lots of toys which she has picked out herself also. Hope that helps, If I missed the point let me know.

My wife doesn't like the taste and doesn't allow me to finish in her mouth, therefore I have no issues. If she were to and swallow, I would have no issues after.. I wouldn't "snowball" though. She will not kiss me after I have gone down on her either, we have baby wipes to remedy this, however I try to get in there sometimes in the heat of the moment, I usually get caught though.

Ultra Harness 2000 - Female on TT @ $99.95. Is the one after a lot of research that I got for my wife, it has not been used however is able to give her vaginal stim as well as anal if desired. With the Vac-u-Lock you now have lots of attachments to choose from. The one this comes with is very nice to imo. I also like Tyger's idea with the bullet!!

SuzyP I find I don't last long at all, I guess I'm always too turned on, sometimes its a long wait to get there and its over too fast

WendyNY Thanks for the clarification. We have done nothing in terms of DP other then a finger or thumb durning vaginal sex, but she isn't all that comfortable with anal sex yet. Once something larger has been in, smaller things almost seem easy.

Thanks WendyNY, Sounds like your date night ended in a grand time. I would love the wife to do that for me too, when you say your husband put on the strap on, was he DPing? or just using the strap on? As for her, I really do hope she comes around, and I won't give up

The term is Pegging

Stu my dream, have the means, but has not happened yet.As for Flirt4Fun, I myself love plugs, love wearing them outside under clothing etc. I started out with Juli Ashton's Anal Beginner's Kit (on TT $36.95) Then once got the size down start adding new ones.

I would love to get a Sybian for the wife.... but at 1599.99 + on sale its just to much...

I got this for the wife, as she loves chocolate, we have tried flavored ones in the past her favorite being orange cream sickle. She tried this and was not a fan and I would have to agree, it has an alcohol taste to it which over powers any of the chocolate flavor.

I have been interested in this topic for sometime. I have used anal stimulation for sometime now however it has always been solo. My wife has let me do her in the ass a few times as I have a huge thing for it. She does not like it however. She would always bring up the fact of how would I like it etc, and would occasionally try to stick a finger in my ass, which I wouldn't allow, because at that time I didn't not know how she would feel with the fact that I enjoy it. I finally built the courage up, and bought a strap on for her, with a few attachments, (one that didn't look like a penis, incase she had the homophobic issue). Finally brought up the idea and gave her the toys and nothing has been mentioned on the topic since. (sad face) I know I would love it, but it would be really weird the first time that I do know. As for the homophobic effect from my point, I'm in no way gay or thoughts of, I just enjoy the feeling. Though I know its not a general census on the issue.