Toys For Boys

[Likefun42]

Well I've started to get intrested in edging & would love to have my partner tie me up & edge me to orgasm over & over with a vibrator but I'm not sure how to bring the subject up

[RC4BLUE]

Have you ever discussed fantasies with your partner. If not that may be a good place to start. I'd also suggest talking about what turns you on, what gives you pleasure, and what your partner might enjoy. If you have used toys with your partner you might also use them on yourself and describe how good it feels. Another option might be reading some erotica together and talking about what was interesting, hot or exciting. There are many ways to talk about what you may enjoy, mostly it take the courage to talk and be vulnerable. Enjoy the exploration.

[alynn93]

Excuse the silly question, but what exactly is edging? I have an idea but I'm not sure.

[RC4BLUE]

Usually it refers to bringing some one or yourself to the edge of climax then letting it drop to bring it back to the edge of climax. You repeat this until you can no long stand it and must have release.

[alynn93]

Usually it refers to bringing some one or yourself to the edge of climax then letting it drop to bring it back to the edge of climax. You repeat this until you can no long stand it and must have release.

Ahh, I see. I wasn't sure if it was something that involved anal, necessarily.

That is definitely what kegal exercises do to me, when I do them as fast as possible.

Did you ever have any luck bringing this up with your partner, Likefun42?

[ladylove]

Take your partner out to a nice dinner, after a glass of wine or drink ask your partner if they ever thought of getting experimental in the bedroom. Take it from There… We'd all love to know the outcome of this so do tell.