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Hi! Quick question. My wife and I are in our early 60s, yet still very active sexually. Problem is, she refuses to let me use any lube on her. She is also averse to using any form of sex toy on herself. Only uses hands for masturbation. Any suggestions?

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Some people think that lube means that they're not getting excited enough. Well, for women, that's not true!! Just like for men, just because you may not have a raging hard on, or have troubles getting one, that you're not sexually excited.

My 2nd ex husband got insulted if I needed some, thinking I wasn't "horny enough for him". Which wasn't the case at all!!! After a baby, and being over 30, and yes, over-tired, sometimes, I didn't get as wet as I use to!

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