Newbie ChickPea Posted September 11, 2006 Newbie Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 I have a unique situation. I am a 48 year old woman and I masturbate daily with fingers and/or toys. I've had orgasms with lovers, both men and women and of course have multiple orgasms with my toys. So what's the issue?After a 20 year marriage that is ending I currently have a lover who is the most intense, fiery, capable, skilled, giving person I have ever been with. I'm not having your "typical" orgasms with him. The minute he touches me I feel as if my entire body is electrified and it continues during sex. I can't explain what happens, but it's as if my entire body is having an orgasm, even after our encounters are over. I do not feel empty or like I am missing anything at all. I am 5'2 and he is 6'4 (and 8 years younger than me!). We enjoy each other immensely. We play with toys, engage in bondage and I strip, do lap dances and dress up for him. This is refreshing and wonderful.I've done some research and some women apparently get off more on the intensity than the orgasm. This has never happened to me before. Has anyone out there had a similar experience? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members trickychick Posted September 11, 2006 Members Report Share Posted September 11, 2006 I have a unique situation. I am a 48 year old woman and I masturbate daily with fingers and/or toys. I've had orgasms with lovers, both men and women and of course have multiple orgasms with my toys. So what's the issue?After a 20 year marriage that is ending I currently have a lover who is the most intense, fiery, capable, skilled, giving person I have ever been with. I'm not having your "typical" orgasms with him. The minute he touches me I feel as if my entire body is electrified and it continues during sex. I can't explain what happens, but it's as if my entire body is having an orgasm, even after our encounters are over. I do not feel empty or like I am missing anything at all. I am 5'2 and he is 6'4 (and 8 years younger than me!). We enjoy each other immensely. We play with toys, engage in bondage and I strip, do lap dances and dress up for him. This is refreshing and wonderful.I've done some research and some women apparently get off more on the intensity than the orgasm. This has never happened to me before. Has anyone out there had a similar experience?Hi,You are a lucky woman!!Im sure I know what you mean, and it has happened to me during times of extreme mental and emotional happiness (very rarely), where absoloutely nothing is wrong, and EVERYTHING is right. Sounds like thats how you are feeling right now, you are in paradise. Whatever you are doing, keep doing it!TC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members nosleepnmesa Posted September 12, 2006 Members Report Share Posted September 12, 2006 Yes an emotional Oragism with a regular O is a amazing feeling. I have had that happen before it is such a overwhelming wonderful pleasure. I love when nothing in the world today is bothering you and you can allow yourself to become so involved in what you are doing. Now do I think one is better then the other, No I feel that they are both amazing. Although the intensity of it is all the better to bring the build up of the O to more levels. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie ChickPea Posted September 14, 2006 Author Newbie Report Share Posted September 14, 2006 Thanks for all of your advice folks. I must reiterate - I am really not having typical clitoral or G spot orgasms but an entire electric body experience. I was with him today and I am left like a pile of mush all day after we have sex. How I go to work after these encounters is a mystery. He tells me that he is going to fuck me senseless and he really means it!But I don't care about the "typical" orgasm and I am not pressuring myself to have any. It's really not happening like that. I have plenty of orgasms by myself with no problem. This is the most intense, fierce, masculine, Martian man I've ever been with. And the interesting thing is that we don't really know each other all that well. I've been more open, free and experimental with him than with my husband of 20+ years. He is in polite talk a "friend with benefits" and there is really no possibility of a real relationship at this time. But we cherish our times together and desire and please each other immensely.OK - where's my Rabbit? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted September 15, 2006 Report Share Posted September 15, 2006 Yes, I have, if you look under the Contest section, my post about Junior, he made me feel like that as well having big O's!! It could be the aniticipation, the thrill of being with someone new and different from your ex, and the possibility that THIS is the guy that really DOES it for you. Some people spend a lifetime looking for what you've got, so enjoy it! And try not to over-think it. Just have fun! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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