Members SometimesLimp Posted January 8, 2020 Members Report Share Posted January 8, 2020 What can I do to maintain my erection? Even when stroking it gets soft. Caused pain because I couldn’t cum. Help, please. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted March 9, 2020 Members Report Share Posted March 9, 2020 There are a lot of products for Ed. All depends on the cause. Talk to your urologist Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cirrus20 Posted April 3, 2020 Members Report Share Posted April 3, 2020 On 1/8/2020 at 7:04 AM, SometimesLimp said: What can I do to maintain my erection? Even when stroking it gets soft. Caused pain because I couldn’t cum. Help, please. I'm a bit confused over the pain comment but if there is real pain versus just "blue balls" from not ejaculating, then Rio is right and you should see a urologist. But if you're simply talking about the congested feeling from not ejaculating then maybe there are some other things to try. You do get erections so everything seems to be working provided there is no real pain associated with the erections. You didn't indicate if you lose your erection only during solo masturbation, during partner sex, or both. In either case, maybe trying something new will help get you more excited and focused on orgasm. You might be losing focus if you do the same old thing every time. Try new positions, places, techniques, toys, or porn for both your solo and/or partner sex to add to the excitement. Maybe try abstaining from any sex for a couple days to build up an appetite and then try something new when you do have sex (whether solo or partner). Also, if you're worried about something, that can cause you to lose focus on the task at hand resulting in losing your erection. Sometimes that happens to me during solo masturbation when something is in the back of my mind that I start thinking about instead of focusing on my penis. And, being worried about losing your erection can become a self-reinforcing problem as well. If the problem occurs during partner sex, just be sure you are with an understanding partner who cares about you. It will help reduce performance anxiety if both of you understand that you can fully satisfy your partner with fingers, mouth, or toys even if you lose your erection. You may even be surprised to find that giving your partner an orgasm by other means leads to a throbbing erection. Another thing is that 50% of guys in the age 40-65 range have an enlarged prostate. Its possible this condition, or the medications you take for it, could contribute to the problem. Normally, the medication you take for an enlarged prostate reduces the amount you ejaculate (I speak from experience) but orgasm and ejaculation should still feel good. Maybe the medication for enlarged prostate or some other medication you're taking could be the problem. In that case, talk to a urologist to see what can be done. I hope this helps. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bigirlhaggen Posted April 3, 2020 Members Report Share Posted April 3, 2020 I know many guys have a pretty with this when they get older but omg our Tom can get and keep his erection multiple times a night seriously Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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