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that photo is pretty damn hot  yes this does happen to men,  it happen to me just recently  i was going quite hard with the wife and just lost my erection but i still cum over pussy, but in saying that i also suffer from  mild ed i get hard without meds but sometimes i need a little help i don't know how old your man is but the doctor told me that it is normal for this to happen to men  call it  our change of life if you wish we are all getting older but i can tell you it is got nothing to do with you going by the photo your smoken hot as my wife is, and she understands and helps when she can we masturbate together  watch a bit of porn love love to masturbate her and lick and finger her clit  talk to your partner and may be see a doctor, its not that big of a deal it can work hope this helps

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I hope he was at least able satisfy you with fingers, tongue and/or toys.  The reason why he lost his erection could be physical, mental,  or medication related.  The question you need to ask yourself is why are you with him? 

If you are only with him for casual sex, or don't see a committed relationship, then it could be a very easy decision.  You're certainly smoking hot enough to easily get another guy to satisfy your pussy.

But if you're with him for more than sex only, the decision might be more difficult.  Do you want to support him as he works thru his issues or move on?  Is he willing to discuss this with you and see a doctor?  Is he frequently masturbating solo or having sex on the side with someone and is simply too exhausted to maintain an erection?  The good news is he can get an erection so that is a hopeful indication.  But you need to discuss it with him and make some decisions.

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I'm committed to him and have been for 10 yrs. I am 51 yrs old and he is 52 yrs old. He always has had a very strong sex drive but the last few yrs has been different. I hope it's age thats the problem and not that I don't turn him on anymore. I am shy when it comes to talking about sex with him. I have my toys to satisfy myself, but he doesn't know.

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heres an idea how about you use the toys in front of him and masturbate for him i guarantee it will make him hard it works for me, there is nothing better than watching a woman masturbate plus its fun as i said before it is NOT your fault

 

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4 hours ago, Lumberjackslovetoy said:

I'm committed to him and have been for 10 yrs. I am 51 yrs old and he is 52 yrs old. He always has had a very strong sex drive but the last few yrs has been different. I hope it's age thats the problem and not that I don't turn him on anymore. I am shy when it comes to talking about sex with him. I have my toys to satisfy myself, but he doesn't know.

Most men at one time or another can have an erection issue.  But if this is not a one time or occasional thing due to stress, fatigue or whatever, you both need to address it and that means talking to each other about it.  If it is worrying you, rest assured that he is very worried about the issue as well.  So, if he hasn't tried to discuss the problem with you then you ma'am need to screw up your courage and initiate an open and honest discussion with him in a non-retribution, understanding way outside of the bedroom. 

See a doctor to determine if there are underlying physical or medication related causes and determine if an ED prescription is needed or wanted.  Additionally, discuss with him alternative means to give you orgasms if he isn't able to maintain his erection.  For most men it is a huge turn-on and ego boost to use fingers, tongue and toys to give a woman as many preliminary orgasms as she can stand.  Doing so also makes for a very hot, wet pussy when we finally do slip our dicks in which is also a huge turn-on and ego boost.

Bottom line is to communicate and address the issue before it becomes even more difficult to deal with.

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It does happen and lm sure he wasn’t pleased. But probably tried other ways, if I knew you had toys, I’d grB that and eat your pussy!

but let him know about the toys and buy some viagra or see a doc to get it !!

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That would happen to my ex alot toward the end of our relationship. He would be fine while I was blowing him but then when I'd either go to ride him or I'd get on all 4's by the time he'd go to insert he'd be limped than limp. And when I suggested using toys in front of him he would get all disgusted. No loss on my part since he was only about 3 inches long hard and not thick at all

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On 4/27/2020 at 9:05 AM, Lumberjackslovetoy said:

My last sexual encounter was cut short when my boyfriend lost his erection. Has this happened to others? How can a man lose his erection while he is fucking a tight wet pussyIMG_20180118_231422.thumb.jpg.963de4c9248b4c66bceaa351c9acb373.jpg

I couldn't lose my erection seeing this next to me

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