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Hey all! I’m 35, 36 next month.I have 3 kids: 15,4,2. I’m an itty bitty, 5’ and 100lbs. I’ve been with my husband for 13 years but we’ve actually known each other for 20😱 

I’ve never really ventured outside of a Vanilla bedroom relationship. I was raised Catholic and I felt a lot of guilt and shame for the things I would fantasize about and eventually tried to just bury who I am.  However, recently I have come to learn that I am very much so, inherently a submissive and have yearned for a Dom/Master for years! I opened up to my hubby about it and he is willing to try and fulfill my need of being Dominated 😍

I love being spanked, choked, biten, etc. and I am looking forward to introducing some BDSM specific toys into our playtime 😊

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Sounds like fun Catalina. Hope your husband is able to fulfill your desires.

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6 minutes ago, Rio said:

Sounds like fun Catalina. Hope your husband is able to fulfill your desires.

Me too🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

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5 hours ago, Catalina said:

Hey all! I’m 35, 36 next month.I have 3 kids: 15,4,2. I’m an itty bitty, 5’ and 100lbs. I’ve been with my husband for 13 years but we’ve actually known each other for 20😱 

I’ve never really ventured outside of a Vanilla bedroom relationship. I was raised Catholic and I felt a lot of guilt and shame for the things I would fantasize about and eventually tried to just bury who I am.  However, recently I have come to learn that I am very much so, inherently a submissive and have yearned for a Dom/Master for years! I opened up to my hubby about it and he is willing to try and fulfill my need of being Dominated 😍

I love being spanked, choked, biten, etc. and I am looking forward to introducing some BDSM specific toys into our playtime 😊

 My wife like you was raised Catholic and sex was only for procreation pretty much as was never really any fun with her ex. She credits me with bring out her inner slut as she calls it , we enjoyed so many sexcapades and got into so many new adventures she loved exploring new things modelinging lingerie and nude modeling photo shoots homemade porn, bdsm, anal sex voyeur sex  going to the nude beach experimenting with her bisexuality  you pretty much name it and I brought her into it. She is the sub no doubt but has enjoyed playing the dom rold every now and then. PM me and I can give you some ideas or if hubby wants I can give them to him so, it's a surprise. She enjoyed bondage so much that she got very creative and would call me and ask how long before I would be getting home and I would walk in and find her tied to the bed, at first she told me she had been creative with knot tying and would wait til the very last minute to put her wrist in the remaining restraint and pull it tight with her teeth but, but one day I came home and found her tied and there was no way she did it herself I didn't realize it at first but I passed her best friend who lived across town almost in our neighborhood. Apparently she enlisted her help. So creativity is a big fun part of it. Enjoy and keep us posted I will share with your privately if you like

 

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1 hour ago, Rio said:

Sounds like fun Catalina. Hope your husband is able to fulfill your desires.

Second night in a row that he’s “too tired” I pulled out all the fucking stops too! Kids staying with the grandparents, set up spare bedroom with EVERYTHING-toys, paddles,restraints, sex pillow, and wore what I think I looked good in and fucking NOTHING😡

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6 minutes ago, Bob Long said:

 My wife like you was raised Catholic and sex was only for procreation pretty much as was never really any fun with her ex. She credits me with bring out her inner slut as she calls it , we enjoyed so many sexcapades and got into so many new adventures she loved exploring new things modelinging lingerie and nude modeling photo shoots homemade porn, bdsm, anal sex voyeur sex  going to the nude beach experimenting with her bisexuality  you pretty much name it and I brought her into it. She is the sub no doubt but has enjoyed playing the dom rold every now and then. PM me and I can give you some ideas or if hubby wants I can give them to him so, it's a surprise. She enjoyed bondage so much that she got very creative and would call me and ask how long before I would be getting home and I would walk in and find her tied to the bed, at first she told me she had been creative with knot tying and would wait til the very last minute to put her wrist in the remaining restraint and pull it tight with her teeth but, but one day I came home and found her tied and there was no way she did it herself I didn't realize it at first but I passed her best friend who lived across town almost in our neighborhood. Apparently she enlisted her help. So creativity is a big fun part of it. Enjoy and keep us posted I will share with your privately if you like

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Thank you so much for your insight and personal experience! I literally have no one I can talk to about any of this (other than hubby when he’s “willing” to listen

I LOVE her photo. She exudes confidence in herself  and her sexuality 😍

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4 hours ago, Catalina said:

Second night in a row that he’s “too tired” I pulled out all the fucking stops too! Kids staying with the grandparents, set up spare bedroom with EVERYTHING-toys, paddles,restraints, sex pillow, and wore what I think I looked good in and fucking NOTHING😡

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Sexy

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I would let you be my sex slave. first I'd have to take you across my knee and give you a good spanking for being a naughty girl. And then I would tie you up to the bed and have my way with you.  You are a very sexy woman

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Thank you for the compliments😍 I still struggle with some insecurities regarding my body. I’m so tiny (5’~100lbs~A cup😕) that it’s hard for me to “feel” sexy and not like a 5th grader😞

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Use that to your advantage how about having sex with a naughty school girl after she gets her sexy little button spanked for doing nasty things to the boys at school

 

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2 hours ago, Catalina said:

Thank you for the compliments😍 I still struggle with some insecurities regarding my body. I’m so tiny (5’~100lbs~A cup😕) that it’s hard for me to “feel” sexy and not like a 5th grader😞

Wow you are  so hot !!  Wish I could play !

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5 hours ago, Bob Long said:

Use that to your advantage how about having sex with a naughty school girl after she gets her sexy little button spanked for doing nasty things to the boys at school

 

You really have a talent for description 😉 I actually have a school girl “uniform” from when I was a stripper in my 20’s. Gonna have to dust it off

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2 hours ago, Catalina said:

You really have a talent for description 😉 I actually have a school girl “uniform” from when I was a stripper in my 20’s. Gonna have to dust it off

You have a school girl outfit and your an ex stripper the possibilities are endless    😚😅😅      and as you say you look so much younger

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On 5/16/2020 at 8:56 PM, Catalina said:

Hey all! I’m 35, 36 next month.I have 3 kids: 15,4,2. I’m an itty bitty, 5’ and 100lbs. I’ve been with my husband for 13 years but we’ve actually known each other for 20😱 

I’ve never really ventured outside of a Vanilla bedroom relationship. I was raised Catholic and I felt a lot of guilt and shame for the things I would fantasize about and eventually tried to just bury who I am.  However, recently I have come to learn that I am very much so, inherently a submissive and have yearned for a Dom/Master for years! I opened up to my hubby about it and he is willing to try and fulfill my need of being Dominated 😍

I love being spanked, choked, biten, etc. and I am looking forward to introducing some BDSM specific toys into our playtime 😊

@Catalina enjoy your new adventure. Exploring is spice of life

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11 hours ago, Catalina said:

You really have a talent for description 😉 I actually have a school girl “uniform” from when I was a stripper in my 20’s. Gonna have to dust it off

Yes please do

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You are very sexy, and don't look like a mother of 3 for sure!!!

I'm sorry your hubby says he's "too tired". I hope that's picked up and he's started to engage more.

If he continues the "too tired" thing, get him to  a doctor. If he's about your age, that really shouldn't be happening if he is relatively healthy. If he works, great, but, even if you're a SAHM, you work all day too, and making an effort to feel sexy, and not in Mom Mode (it's a thing, trust me), he should appreciate for sure!

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On 5/17/2020 at 8:10 PM, Catalina said:

You really have a talent for description 😉 I actually have a school girl “uniform” from when I was a stripper in my 20’s. Gonna have to dust it off

Make sure to post a picture or 10. Lol

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On 5/17/2020 at 12:20 AM, Catalina said:

Second night in a row that he’s “too tired” I pulled out all the fucking stops too! Kids staying with the grandparents, set up spare bedroom with EVERYTHING-toys, paddles,restraints, sex pillow, and wore what I think I looked good in and fucking NOTHING😡

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So sorry Catalina. A big thank you for sharing your pics, very Sexy.

Your husband is lucky to have someone take the time to pre-plan a fun filled, sex crazed evening or weekend. Don't know what is wrong with him 🤦‍♂️

 

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If my wife went through all that trouble I know we would not leave there for a long weekend. We be fucking our brains out do we couldn't stand it anymore. So sorry about your plight.

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On 5/21/2020 at 7:15 AM, Rio said:

If my wife went through all that trouble I know we would not leave there for a long weekend. We be fucking our brains out do we couldn't stand it anymore. So sorry about your plight.

I want to masturbate with you

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Just a little update. I talked to him Off and on throughout the week about how hurt I was about this past weekend and what DIDN’T happen. He didn’t seem to really get it at first. I then said that if he isn’t willing or able to give me what I need in regards to affection and sex that I would like to discuss having an open marriage. That REALLY got his attention as he is possessive (not in a bad way) and can experience some jealousy occasionally (as I do too😆).  Needless to say last night HE went all out for me! 
I don’t know if it was my build up of sexual frustration or what but for the first time EVER... I SQUIRTED😱 All over his fucking face nonetheless. I have never experienced that before and didn’t even “understand” what was happening. It was crazy, in a good way. I’m hoping that the fact he was able to accomplish that will help motivate him for awhile😂

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Congrats. And may you have many more squirts to come.

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