Newbie Husband b Posted May 27, 2020 Newbie Report Share Posted May 27, 2020 Can anyone suggest anything? I’m at my wits end. my wife’s desire is so different than mine. We have tried several things, she’ll give blowjobs, a few different positions. We have tried anal but she doesn’t like. I have suggested so many other things and there is always a response of hesitancy. I do t think I’ve really ever given her a reason not to trust me, but it’s always there. It’s like I’m the guy on the roller coaster sitting in the front car, hands up, eyes wide open, smiling and enjoying every bit. She is sitting somewhere in the middle hanging on for dear life, Estes closed and resistant to even being on the ride. Maybe extreme analogy, but you get it. How can I help her free herself up to fully enjoy. Also she kind of makes me feel ashamed that I even think about some of the things I might bring up, like using dildos or any kind of restraint for either person. Help!!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lil_mrs_kitty Posted June 9, 2020 Members Report Share Posted June 9, 2020 I can understand how you feel. My husband is let's say old fashioned. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Tommiett Posted June 18, 2020 Newbie Report Share Posted June 18, 2020 Maybe keep asking what she likes get her to open up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie BigD Posted June 19, 2020 Newbie Report Share Posted June 19, 2020 Don’t try so hard. You’ve got to make her feel comfortable to open up. One night she climbed into bed and just started blowing me. So I went down on her and we snapped out of our funk. After that, things were a lot different. Just relax and go back to the basics Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Tink Posted July 15, 2020 Newbie Report Share Posted July 15, 2020 Maybe ask her if there is anything new she has been thinking/wanting to try.. perhaps that will give you an idea on what gets her "adrenaline"going. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cirrus20 Posted August 23, 2020 Members Report Share Posted August 23, 2020 Make sure she's turned her on and once she's warmed up and feeling sexy ask what are her deepest, darkest fantasies that you can fulfill. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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