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Hello all !

So here is my situation, a friend of mine ask me to do a threesome with her husband. He's very shy, and I don't really know what to do to make him relax. My friend just came out and really want to try to have sex with a girl and, her husband is really open and accepted for her to try.

I told her i was open if she wanted, since i really love my friend (non romantic) and now her husband wants to participte (which I'm okay with), but he can't touch me and I can't touch him.

He's so shy, I'm afraid he won't be in the mood, or he'll be miserable and I really don't know what to do to make him relax a bit. What do you think I should do ? What positions and scenarios would work best so everbody can have a good time ?

Is it really a good idea for us to do, since we are friends and all ? I don't want her hubby to be uncomfortable afterwards because I'm still close to my friend... 

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14 hours ago, RedVelvety said:

Hello all !

So here is my situation, a friend of mine ask me to do a threesome with her husband. He's very shy, and I don't really know what to do to make him relax. My friend just came out and really want to try to have sex with a girl and, her husband is really open and accepted for her to try.

I told her i was open if she wanted, since i really love my friend (non romantic) and now her husband wants to participte (which I'm okay with), but he can't touch me and I can't touch him.

He's so shy, I'm afraid he won't be in the mood, or he'll be miserable and I really don't know what to do to make him relax a bit. What do you think I should do ? What positions and scenarios would work best so everbody can have a good time ?

Is it really a good idea for us to do, since we are friends and all ? I don't want her hubby to be uncomfortable afterwards because I'm still close to my friend... 

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5 hours ago, Excited said:

Since neither wants to touch each other to start with you could  play that old game called spin the bottle. Everyone gets undressed in front of each other in a fun way. Then after everyone is naked spin for touching g ir tasting certain body parts. This should help progress your sexual fun. Might help who’s shyness. 

Yeah, this is a really good idea, thanks ! 

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7 hours ago, Excited said:

Since neither wants to touch each other to start with you could  play that old game called spin the bottle. Everyone gets undressed in front of each other in a fun way. Then after everyone is naked spin for touching g ir tasting certain body parts. This should help progress your sexual fun. Might help who’s shyness. 

That sounds like a fun idea. Have you done it?

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On 8/15/2020 at 6:39 AM, RedVelvety said:

Hello all !

So here is my situation, a friend of mine ask me to do a threesome with her husband. He's very shy, and I don't really know what to do to make him relax. My friend just came out and really want to try to have sex with a girl and, her husband is really open and accepted for her to try.

I told her i was open if she wanted, since i really love my friend (non romantic) and now her husband wants to participte (which I'm okay with), but he can't touch me and I can't touch him.

He's so shy, I'm afraid he won't be in the mood, or he'll be miserable and I really don't know what to do to make him relax a bit. What do you think I should do ? What positions and scenarios would work best so everbody can have a good time ?

Is it really a good idea for us to do, since we are friends and all ? I don't want her hubby to be uncomfortable afterwards because I'm still close to my friend... 

He will be shy until his dick gets hard. Then it will be a free for all. Also alcohol would smooth out the situation. Have drinks start flirting. It will all work out. 

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On 8/15/2020 at 9:39 AM, RedVelvety said:

Hello all !

So here is my situation, a friend of mine ask me to do a threesome with her husband. He's very shy, and I don't really know what to do to make him relax. My friend just came out and really want to try to have sex with a girl and, her husband is really open and accepted for her to try.

I told her i was open if she wanted, since i really love my friend (non romantic) and now her husband wants to participte (which I'm okay with), but he can't touch me and I can't touch him.

He's so shy, I'm afraid he won't be in the mood, or he'll be miserable and I really don't know what to do to make him relax a bit. What do you think I should do ? What positions and scenarios would work best so everbody can have a good time ?

Is it really a good idea for us to do, since we are friends and all ? I don't want her hubby to be uncomfortable afterwards because I'm still close to my friend... 

Ok I'm going to be the wet blanket at this party, I say no don't do it because there are too many red flags

"but he can't touch me and I can't touch him" ok its sex you touch people during sex, whose idea is this? When I helped my old GF who said she wanted a to experience a threesome with another woman we set up a few ground rules with the other woman first off it was all about her pleasure I would only do what she was comfortable with even if it was just watching we settled on I would not fuck her but she would be allowed to suck my cock basically to get me hard enough to fuck my GF again they call it a fluffer in porn movies well with my GF's blessing I did fuck her that night and the multiple times afterward when we would get together its all about boundaries and setting them up ahead of time.

"since we are friends and all ? I don't want her hubby to be uncomfortable afterwards because I'm still close to my friend" I would say this is a no if you become friends afterwards with a stranger such as my old GF and I did and my wife and I have thats a different story

"My friend just came out and really want to try to have sex with a girl" My suggestion is the two of you get together maybe talk and why not have sex to help your friend experience how wonderful it will be, women are no where near as jealous and possessive as men are and I owuld seriously doubt it wold jeopardize your friendship

My wife had a lot of sex with her present girlfriend who now lives with us before I had sex with the two of them and then her alone, I was perfectly cool with it because I knew they needed their bonding time and having me there may have changed their comfort levels, good luck I hope you have a wonderful experience no matter what you choose

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On 8/15/2020 at 9:39 AM, RedVelvety said:

Hello all !

So here is my situation, a friend of mine ask me to do a threesome with her husband. He's very shy, and I don't really know what to do to make him relax. My friend just came out and really want to try to have sex with a girl and, her husband is really open and accepted for her to try.

I told her i was open if she wanted, since i really love my friend (non romantic) and now her husband wants to participte (which I'm okay with), but he can't touch me and I can't touch him.

He's so shy, I'm afraid he won't be in the mood, or he'll be miserable and I really don't know what to do to make him relax a bit. What do you think I should do ? What positions and scenarios would work best so everbody can have a good time ?

Is it really a good idea for us to do, since we are friends and all ? I don't want her hubby to be uncomfortable afterwards because I'm still close to my friend... 

It does change the dynamics of a relationship.  If you girls enjoy each other he may enjoy watching..

Just dont sweat it..

Hes curious I betcha

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