Newbie Josue Posted October 16, 2020 Newbie Report Share Posted October 16, 2020 Hi I wanted to ask the experts for some advice or your thoughts on the subject. My wife will not show any signs of desire for sex. She will not make the first move and I have even tested her to see if I wait long enough she might find a need for sex. Once I did not initiate sex for a whole month just to see what would happen, nothing happen. When I finally asked her she said “well I was waiting for you”. She thinks that if she does that she will feel like a whore. I’m at a lost and about ready to peruse other women, after all I can only masturbate so much! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DewMan@1961 Posted October 16, 2020 Members Report Share Posted October 16, 2020 4 minutes ago, Josue said: Hi I wanted to ask the experts for some advice or your thoughts on the subject. My wife will not show any signs of desire for sex. She will not make the first move and I have even tested her to see if I wait long enough she might find a need for sex. Once I did not initiate sex for a whole month just to see what would happen, nothing happen. When I finally asked her she said “well I was waiting for you”. She thinks that if she does that she will feel like a whore. I’m at a lost and about ready to peruse other women, after all I can only masturbate so much! Send us some pictures of your sweet wife and we both will take her to our world of pure sex city..... Thanks Mandy and DeweyC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pblo69 Posted November 6, 2020 Members Report Share Posted November 6, 2020 She may need some assistance like Viagra for women. If her libido is just not there. I would suggest not violating any vows just yet. Put in the work maybe she’ll come around. I suggested openning my marriage and it destroyed it. Lost my best friend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted November 21, 2020 Report Share Posted November 21, 2020 It really depends on several things, as to why she's not initiating sex. Her feeling like a whore if she initiates sex with her husband seems a bit extreme, in my opinion. I mean, women weren't really thought of as sexual beings back in the 1800's, but not now. Age, upbringing, health, medications she may be on, kids, even the amount she's sleeping, can all affect one's libido. If you want her to want you, cheating on her will do the exact opposite. So, I'd stay away from that idea. First thing to do is to have an honest conversation with her, without guilt. Do not make her feel bad. The other thing is, take a look at what you're putting into the relationship. Are you appreciative of what she does? Do you flirt with her? Do you bring home flowers just because? Being taken for granted and just going thru the motions, doesn't make either one of you wanting to put forth extra, but someone has to start somewhere. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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