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I can't seem to figure it out. I always thought of myself as heterosexual who enjoys sex with men as well. Society says I'm bisexual. Okay, I can handle that. But I am physically and emotionally attracted to women. I am not attracted to men physically and emotionally. Now I've gone from bisexual to pansexual because I enjoy sex with a man but don't have the physical and emotional feelings for men.  I enjoy sex with women and I have physical and emotional feelings as well. Maybe we put to many labels on people. Anyway, is it okay if I think of myself as a heterosexual man who simply has a high sex drive and I happen to occasionally have sex with a man when I am not in a relationship with a woman. 

Please help me to understand this so I don't have to worry if I'm okay. 

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48 minutes ago, aroused5 said:

I can't seem to figure it out. I always thought of myself as heterosexual who enjoys sex with men as well. Society says I'm bisexual. Okay, I can handle that. But I am physically and emotionally attracted to women. I am not attracted to men physically and emotionally. Now I've gone from bisexual to pansexual because I enjoy sex with a man but don't have the physical and emotional feelings for men.  I enjoy sex with women and I have physical and emotional feelings as well. Maybe we put to many labels on people. Anyway, is it okay if I think of myself as a heterosexual man who simply has a high sex drive and I happen to occasionally have sex with a man when I am not in a relationship with a woman. 

Please help me to understand this so I don't have to worry if I'm okay. 

Don't worry about it.  What you do behind closed doors is your business.  If you enjoy sex with men enjoy yourself.  My man has the desire to suck and peg a guy. 

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3 minutes ago, Curious15 said:

Don't worry about it.  What you do behind closed doors is your business.  If you enjoy sex with men enjoy yourself.  My man has the desire to suck and peg a guy. 

Thank you 

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Yes don't worry about what other people say. Do what makes you feel comfortable. Labels are a pain in the butt. Don't worry about it. Enjoy yourself and have fun

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17 minutes ago, Rio said:

Yes don't worry about what other people say. Do what makes you feel comfortable. Labels are a pain in the butt. Don't worry about it. Enjoy yourself and have fun

Thank you Rio

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I think you've got the best advise possible from Rio and Curious.  Just enjoy yourself.

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57 minutes ago, Rio said:

@aroused5if you were here I'd make you forget about what anybody else is saying

Thank you 

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2 hours ago, cirrus20 said:

I think you've got the best advise possible from Rio and Curious.  Just enjoy yourself.

I agree 

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