Members bluelight Posted January 10, 2007 Members Report Share Posted January 10, 2007 I was just wondering do a lot of virgin women use sex toys. I'm a virgin and I have a coulple of dildos and so I wondered if other virgins also use them. If a virgin can use a dildo then I guess they won't have any pain the first time they have sex right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted January 10, 2007 Members Report Share Posted January 10, 2007 Since I am not a virgin I will address only part of your question. If you are using a toy that you insert into your vagina, then you have broken your hymen, hence you are "technically" not a virgin anymore. Also, this does NOT mean that you will not experience any discomfort during your first sexual experience with a man. Men can be larger and longer than toys - therefore, you can end up with some pain. So please don't assume that this is the case.I would hate for other virgins to think that they can lessen the pain of the first time by using toys. In my opinion (and this is my opinion) -I would prefer not to use a toy prior to the first sexual experience as in a way, I feel it takes away from the first time with your lover. However, everyone is entitled to their own opinions and personal feelings on the matter.Mikayla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Scott Posted January 16, 2007 Newbie Report Share Posted January 16, 2007 I was just wondering do a lot of virgin women use sex toys. I'm a virgin and I have a coulple of dildos and so I wondered if other virgins also use them. If a virgin can use a dildo then I guess they won't have any pain the first time they have sex right?Hi; I am new to the board, and I have a question about an anal toy I purchased from Too Timid. I purchased the purple anal plug, and after I inserted it , it kept popping out. I was in hopes that I would be able to benefit from some prostate stimulation, but didn't come close. Should I try the plug without, or with very little lubrication? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members GirlNextDoor Posted January 26, 2007 Members Report Share Posted January 26, 2007 I'm also a virgin who uses sex toys. I don't think it's weird at all. It's silly to think that women should have to completely abstain from sexual pleasure just because they haven't found the right guy yet. I think it's perfectly healthy and reasonable. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bluelight Posted January 27, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted January 27, 2007 I'm also a virgin who uses sex toys. I don't think it's weird at all. It's silly to think that women should have to completely abstain from sexual pleasure just because they haven't found the right guy yet. I think it's perfectly healthy and reasonable.Thank you so much that makes me feel a lot better. I really want to wait until i'm married to have sex. I had no idea i would be 26 years old and not married but i guess it just happens. I don't want to settle for the first guy that comes along. i don't think i could survive without a little help from some of my toys. it's hard being a grown woman and a virgin. I want to wait till im married but i'm not a nun either. thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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