Hard To Reach Orgasm

[sasha]

Im just becoming comfortable with my body and who I am. I run daily and take good care of myself, but have always been hard on myself. Long story short I have recently bought 2 new toys and 2 movies. I have the ultimate rabbit vibrator and a very little one for anal or clit stimulation. The videos are ok , but I'd like to know if anyone has some good suggestions. My question is if I have a hard time reach orgasm, what are any suggestions on toys that would get me there and videos. Thanks.sasha

[crazy1]

as far as vids it is all up to your personall preferences. Are you into certain things, or do you perfer more generic pornos? As far as toys, the ultimate rabbit should do the trick for you. Any woman I know that owns one loves it. One thing you need to consider is that having an orgasm is not a competition, race, or goal. It should be something that is desired but not competitivley sought. It might help if you can take some time and slow down, have your husband help you out with it, let him use the toys while you relax, focus on what he is saying and doing and the sensations it brings. Before hand, take a bubble bath or light some candles, ask for a massage, ect. Just relax, the more relaxed you are physically and mentally the more receptive you are sexually. I wish you the best of luck.

[hot-pants-kate]

Hi Sahsa, when i masterbate (most nights unless i have a hot date with sex), i always daydream about a guy, sometimes a new guy i'm hot for, or just a handsome jock with a HUGE cock and sexy balls. Try a vibrator with a shaft that gets at least half way up your vagina (not too long thou) and a finger that presses on your clit, with leg and waist straps so it will stay inplace by itself & you can fall asleep with it on. With hands free i sometimes make love to a firm pillow, or foldle myself, push your hips up, pussy forward, like he would when he wants in deeper or i fondle my breasts and nipples if i'm not having my period. The vibrations don't have to be real strong, med to low will work. The new ones change pulses which is better. Pretend he is inside you and wants to fill you up with his love juice, Daydream about his semen, what you might do with it whan he squirts, that always makes me hot and horny.

Works great every time for me.

[sasha]

as far as vids it is all up to your personall preferences.  Are you into certain things, or do you perfer more generic pornos?  As far as toys, the ultimate rabbit should do the trick for you.  Any woman I know that owns one loves it.  One thing you need to consider is that having an orgasm is not a competition, race, or goal.  It should be something that is desired but not competitivley sought.  It might help if you can take some time and slow down, have your husband help you out with it, let him use the toys while you relax, focus on what he is saying and doing and the sensations it brings.  Before hand, take a bubble bath or light some candles, ask for a massage, ect.  Just relax, the more relaxed you are physically and mentally the more receptive you are sexually.  I wish you the best of luck.

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[sasha]

Thanks for the help. I ordered another toy for myself and a vibrating ring for my hubby , hope he likes it. I ordered another video Dinner party 3- it looked good, I'll let you know. I do need to relax, it is hard to with four boys ranging in age from 4.5 to 9 yrs old. I've had orgasms, just not often and it is hard to reach sometimes. Of course once you have had one you want it ALL the time. I'm lovin my toys. I do have the ulitamate butterfly, and I bought another one that is a triple vibrator and is more powerful. Cant wait.

Sasha