Members sasha Posted August 14, 2005 Members Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 My hubby and I are really into the toys, movies and great sex, but he gets so excited that he cums to fast. I want it to last laonger, as he does too. What can we do for him to last longer and hold off his cum? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Chris4u Posted August 14, 2005 Members Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 Well if he's young and not too experienced then that's a huge factor. However if he's been active for a long long time, then he's just very sensitive and you can buy him some prolonging cream/gel or desensitizing ones too. I never tried them because they don't condition you to control and prolong sex yourself.If your in the middle of penetration and he feels the climax feeling coming up then slow down, way down. He should limit the trusts, just go slowly until it goes away or most of the way and continue on. What I used to do was that and/or pull out and do oral until the feeling passed. As long as you don't stop the sexual acts, because you want him to please you and not ruin the moment by taking a break. After time he'll last longer and longer, you'll see. For fast results, use the products, but they wont give him the experience to hold off in future sex acts. They just delay that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sasha Posted August 14, 2005 Author Members Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 Well if he's young and not too experienced then that's a huge factor. However if he's been active for a long long time, then he's just very sensitive and you can buy him some prolonging cream/gel or desensitizing ones too. I never tried them because they don't condition you to control and prolong sex yourself.If your in the middle of penetration and he feels the climax feeling coming up then slow down, way down. He should limit the trusts, just go slowly until it goes away or most of the way and continue on. What I used to do was that and/or pull out and do oral until the feeling passed. As long as you don't stop the sexual acts, because you want him to please you and not ruin the moment by taking a break. After time he'll last longer and longer, you'll see. For fast results, use the products, but they wont give him the experience to hold off in future sex acts. They just delay that.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sasha Posted August 14, 2005 Author Members Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 Well if he's young and not too experienced then that's a huge factor. However if he's been active for a long long time, then he's just very sensitive and you can buy him some prolonging cream/gel or desensitizing ones too. I never tried them because they don't condition you to control and prolong sex yourself.If your in the middle of penetration and he feels the climax feeling coming up then slow down, way down. He should limit the trusts, just go slowly until it goes away or most of the way and continue on. What I used to do was that and/or pull out and do oral until the feeling passed. As long as you don't stop the sexual acts, because you want him to please you and not ruin the moment by taking a break. After time he'll last longer and longer, you'll see. For fast results, use the products, but they wont give him the experience to hold off in future sex acts. They just delay that.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>I think that his urge to cum is being brought on by our intense sex sessions. We have really gotten into our toys andd movies and it is all very good. Not that in the past it was not, it was. The difference is that we are venturing out and trying new, great things and it is so exciting. So I like your advise on just pulling out and doing some oral or whatever. Anyone else got ideas? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Janet Posted August 14, 2005 Members Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 I think that his urge to cum is being brought on by our intense sex sessions. We have really gotten into our toys andd movies and it is all very good. Not that in the past it was not, it was. The difference is that we are venturing out and trying new, great things and it is so exciting. So I like your advise on just pulling out and doing some oral or whatever. Anyone else got ideas?<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Push up on his perenium - that part between his balls and asshole - that puts pressure that stops the would-be flow of cum. Do it for 5 - 10 seconds, then start up slowly again - somtines it works. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tim@tmgdesigns Posted August 15, 2005 Members Report Share Posted August 15, 2005 Have him masturbate an hour or so before one of your sessions. This should extend him out much longer. I think the second orgasm is always better anyway.Goodluck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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