55 Vr 30

[hotamales]

HI, MI HAUSBAND IS 55 AND I AM 30:

I NEVER FEEL THIS BEFORE BUT NOW I LIKE TO WACH PORNO AND DO NEW STAFF; BUT BMY HAUBAND IS TO FOCUS JUST ON THE TRADICIONAL.

I AM A SHAME ON MY SELF BECAUSE I THINK I AM A SEX ADICT; ALWAYS THINKING ABOUT IT.

I CAN'T TALK TO MY HAUSBAND LIKE THIS I FEEL EMBARRASS TO TELL HIM TO TRY DOTHER POSITION OR DO DIFERENTS THING ; HELP ME A TO TELL HIM THAT I DONT LOOK AS A FOOLH MY SELFF OR NOT LOOSIN HIS RESPECT?

[pappyld04]

You poor girl, there is NOTHING wrong with this. There is no need to feel guilty or ashamed. Your major problem appears to be the lack of communication in your relationship. Talk to him about what you are feeling regardless of the consequences. In this day and age women are willing to experiment with sex and have made great strides in worrying about their own pleasure also. You are risking a loss but nowhere near the loss you face by letting him bore you to death. Good luck!!!

[Mikayla1]

I get the sense that you have some stigma when it comes to sex - perhaps a religious or cultural issue. Is sex a taboo thing for you? Do you have reason to feel ashamed to talk about this as a woman or a wife? I personally believe when we enter into a relationship - especially a marriage - we owe it to ourselves and our partner to be honest about our likes, dislikes and expectations when it comes to a lot of things, especially sex! You have to come clean with what you want out of sex and let him have his opinions, but don't settle for an uhappy relationship!