Newbie delinton Posted April 29, 2008 Newbie Report Share Posted April 29, 2008 Hello:I have decided to join this group as it seems to be so open about matters sexual and how to achieve the greatest satisfaction for you and your partner. Some background is toward here as my situation has not been discussed, at least as far as I know.Last year my wife and I lost our youngest son, age 35, to a very aggressive bacterium, one of the super bugs about which we have heard so much. His brother is an alcoholic and that was awful to deal with as on more than one occasion my wife and I caught ourselves planning his funeral. After the streptococcal infection killed his brother in 48 hours he went down hill even faster so for a while it seemed we would have two funerals with which to deal. He is in recovery now and doing far better than I ever expected.Why all this, because the effect on me was a complete loss of interest in life in general and, in particular, loss of libido and ED. My wife is now having treatment to increase her interest in sex and libido and I have been in therapy, tried Viagra and one other like drug to no effect, and cannot get or sustain an erection. I am in the process of ordering a genuine electric vacuum pump (MegaVac Motor for erectile dysfunction from penisdepot.com) and see if that will work. Thus, I have this roiling sensation in my psyche, such as the ones below volcanoes before an eruption, with no way of relieving the stress. Thus, I am here to see if I find anything of interest and that might help. I am in sympathy with those who like razors and clippers to reduce the fields of hair in all the wrong places and enjoy the bald feeling a great deal. My wife also likes a modified bald look and despite a very conservative upbringing enjoys exploring new things, such as oral sex, but not deep throating (although right now that is a moot point), new positions, and is slipping slowly towards anal. She's a loving and understanding and I am very lucky.So, that is it. Keep up the interesting posting and I will be interested in reading what you have to say.zoe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ToyQueen Posted April 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 30, 2008 Welcome to TooTimid! My condolences on the loss of your son. I hope that we as a whole can do something to help and encourage you now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members nosleepnmesa Posted April 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 30, 2008 Welcome to TT! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted April 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 30, 2008 Welcome to the forum! Sorry that your info starts in that way. I've always thought it wrong for a parent to bury their children. Glad to see your other son do such a turn-about! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Valntyn Posted April 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 30, 2008 Welcome to the community! Though my heart aches for the hardships your family has gone through, I was glad to read that life is slowly turning around in many areas. I hope you and your wife keep a loving relationship in which you can continue to grow, learn and pleasure one another.I'm sure you'll add much to TooTimid and hopefully we can return the favor. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cmwise1 Posted April 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 30, 2008 Welcome to TT. You will find supportive people here and hopefully your situation will improve. My condolences on the loss of you son. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hollybw Posted April 30, 2008 Members Report Share Posted April 30, 2008 You're right, this is a very open group, and very informative site! Glad you joined up! Keep posting!I think it is wonderful that after all you and your wife have been through, you two are still making so many efforts to connect with and please one another! Congratulations!Hope to hear more from you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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