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Please do Mik!!! Angel, you are gorgeous!! Love the eyes and smile!

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Honey, PLEASE! You know I have seen your picture, and you are far from ugly! Trust me! I'm sure it hurt at the time, and still does. But you have to let it go - or talk to him. You are married, and should be able to talk about it. I'm sure he meant nothing by it, as you said already. Sex can make us very vulnerable. But don't let it get you down. I know what you mean. I don't look so much like I did when we first got together, before baby and a year of breast-feeding. He still loves the way I look anyway, at least he says he does. I get very self-conscious, too. However, it is something we all have to get over and let go of. Something probably just tickled him at the moment - nothing to do with you in a negative way. I'm sorry this happened - I would probably feel something like you do - but I would say something. Men can sometimes be stupid or immature - most of them can't help it - sorry guys. Keep your head up!

Thanks for the info! Damn! That sucks!! Well, the search continues... If anyone finds another great pruchase of this kind, please let us know!

Thanks! As soon as I saw it, I knew I had to use it. It reminds me of my husband - I am ALWAYS in the kitchen, and my husband is always coming in there trying to distract me!

That is great news! I know what it means to have a great doc. Mine wrote off a $963 bill that was charged to me for an IUD when she realized I no longer had the insurance that I previously had when I was pregnant. It's so good to have a good one - hope your hubby will get some REAL help and advice now. Let us know!

WOW!! 4 years?! Why'd you wait so long?! Glad you finally decided to join in! We look forward to hearing from you more! Keep posting!

This situation really is unfortunate... Sorry to hear this. I agree with everyone who posted before - encourage her some more to take a look. Who knows, she may claim to be against it, but really just be a bit embarrassed or mislead. She may look into the site when you aren't aware. Surely if she does, she will have a change of heart. I also have to agree that you shouldn't have to give up something that she won't even look into to see if she is truly against. It is judgemental, IMO. When I disagree with my husband, I know what I am disagreeing with... Good luck with this, and let us know what happens.

OK, I have taken Paxil a few times, as well as many other anti-depressants. They almost ALWAYS lead to loss of libido! Trust me! It really sucks he was treated this wasy by a doc. Sorry for this! But reamember, this doc is not the "be all end all" of doctors - it IS hard to find a good one!! Again, TRUST me!! You did the right thing by making another appt. with another doc! Good for you two! Get the second opinion. I would only fill the script if he is actually depressed - not for a long-shot side-affect - I have never heard of this... Sounds to me like he saw a quack! Good luck with this, and make sure he sees someone else.

Sorry to hear you are having all these problems, but I think you will find here that you are not the only one. Keep reading, and read the sex ed articles, too. Also feel free to keep asking questions here - someone is always listening on this site, and you will find many points of view. Good luck, and keep posting.

Happy Birthday!!

So sweet! She's precious!

You'll be surprised - the sweeter you eat, the sweeter you'll taste!

I LOVE hearing that!! We always say that we pray we are still doing it at 60-70-80 years old! Congratulations!!! Keep up the good "work!"

you won't be disappointed..

If you look anything like that, my husband would love you! I'm with Aiden, though! I don't care to know - I just want my husband to, but not too much!

Shit... Amost alla des sound famiyar...

If you were "thinking" about this one - definately try it! I highly recommend and so does my hubby! We love the way it makes our skin feel!

WOW - just when I didn't think bullets could get any better...

Afterglow Natural Massage Candle “Great while lit, even better in the dark. More than a candle, it’s an encounter.” This statement, read in the literature inclosed in the box containing the Afterglow Massage Candle, had us excited and ready for what has become a routine activity for our aching bodies... Massages are a usual part of our daily lives - and foreplay, as Hubby and I both have back problems, and we frequently try to help each other out in that aspect - even if not for foreplay. Therefore, the Afterglow Massage Candle from JimmyJane seemed a nice selection to help us help each other... The scent we received is called “Fig Leaf.” I really love this herbal scent, as it smells something like a men’s cologne. It is free of paraffin and dyes. Also, as an added bonus, this product comes with the BEST matches we have ever used - not a book, but a large, sturdy box, with thick-sticked matches, easily stricken on it’s side. We lit this candle while preparing for our alone time, as the instructions ask to give the candle enough burning time to let the oil melt (suggested 30 minutes). First, we drew a hot bath, lit regular burning candles around the tub and in our bedroom, and set out our toys of choice. After a nice bath, along with some brief, humorous argument over who got the first massage, I led Hubby to the bed. The candle had been lit long enough for plenty of oil to pool into the glass, be blown out (be sure to do this first!), and be drizzled onto our backs for long, sensual rub-downs. Once melted, the oil was just the right temperature - not too hot, not too cool - just perfect. We later noticed how incredibly soft and supple our skin felt after our massages, even a few days and a few showers later. The packaging states that the candle has the ability to amazingly burn for 42 long hours. Of course, if it is used for multiple massages, it will not last nearly as long, as the oil will be poured out. However, I will say that we have given about 3 massages apiece to each other by now, and we still have over half of the candle left for several more awaited sessions to come. I have to admit that this is sort of an expensive candle at $25, but I really believe it is very well worth the price - I think this is definately something we will buy as soon as we use it all, and we would likely pay more, knowing how much we have enjoyed it. We really are impressed with the quality and the possibilities of this item, the Afterglow Massage Candle. A definate 5 STARS!!! http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...amp;ProdID=5741

FYI, the reviewers here are REAL! Many people, such as me and many others, really review the toys here on TT - and we love doing so! However, I cannot speak for other websites... Hope our reviews will help you and others in the future! Thanks for your review!

This was exactly my point to begin with!

Ha, ha! Very funny... Yes, there are plenty of rednecks here, as you can imagine... However, just as one bad apple embarrassed me, another good one WAS holding the door for me when I walked into the store, and that is common here. Luckily, that is one thing I can count on around here - it was quite a culture shock to go to the west coast and find that most do not take the time to do this, or so was my experience (please, don't everyone jump on me for saying so...). Perhaps life really is just slower here. Also, as soon as you get outside of city limits, everyone throws a hands up to each passing driver - something I would miss if I moved away from down here. As far as chivalry goes, maybe most women just do not expect or demand it anymore as much as we used to. As has been said before, I won't wait on someone to hold the door for me - I am completely capable. However, I do appreciate and take notice of it when it is done for me. In my opinion, it is just a matter of respect, which is the reason I hold the door for ANYone.

Sounds like fun, Aiden! Happy penis-making!